your wholeness is not a negotiable

Just because someone else is invested in only one side of you;
Hired to support one aspect of your life, funded or appointed to be responsible for one area, and I do not care how big or profound or meaningful;

Any assumption they are holding the key to who you are, is vanity.

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As you may or may not have noticed, ever since October I have not been very active online. The reasons appeared to be scattered ones, incidental ones, unlucky ones.
Futile details, in the larger scope of things.

And that would have been correct, had they not thickened into bigger, unsolvable problems. Fundamental and principal differences. Early indicators of long and proven relationships, that I never expected to have to go without, but that will either bend or break, in the upcoming six months.

October, November 2023, there seemed little more at work than chance. Months later, it is now May 2024, and I see my life coming apart at the seams.
And know that it was time.

That this breaking, or the bending, and the snapping back into something completely anew, for a new era;
It is inevitable.

It is that, or to give away the piece that they are holding. The interest they are having. The part that was never for them to take, but ended up on their half, instead of on my own domain.
It will be claimed.
It is mine.

There is a story in the bible of two women who claim to be the mother of a child. And it is not until it is under threat that the child is cut in half, that the real mother screams: “Take him! Give him to her!”
Revealing the true one.

And we go around giving pieces of our life away, thinking they will be better off with professionals, with other mothers, and that these areas or even parts of our own bodies, need the care of other mothers.
But you and I, cannot afford the price.

The price of being disowned from our own resources.
Disempowered from our own bodies.

Claim back what is yours. Do not give away so easily. Guard, defend, regroup, restore.

And come back stronger.

~Suzanne
Rock Star Writer

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