Foundation | 2026 02 03 | That ONE Book (start at any page)

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I used to call it the coffee pot principle:
Anything in life is going to require a container to hold it.
But others have said the same thing by emphasizing the importance of systems.

In the coffeepot analogy, systems would refer to the importance of processes like cleaning and maintaining the pot, the equipment and the workspace, and repurposing your waste.

And although I like the simplicity of the coffee pot analogy, (bring a big pot if you want big things) it are in fact always the processes (and rarely the hardware) that kills your buzz, your business, your friendships and your dreams.

Even if you would have all the skills to run your coffee pot like a champ, your time is still limited, on a good day.
And plummeting to zero the moment Life happens!

Even if you have a completely regulated life, we still share that experience of suddenly, or chronically, having something else demanding our attention.

One by one our systems collapse, and chaos takes over.

The first 2 weeks of this year, my life was taken over trying to tackle mice.
They had entered in December, but it was the loose holiday schedule from our waste collection service, and a stone marten that left, that was quickly turning them from winter guests into permanent residents.
And they were using my kitchen.

Yet aside from a few cracks, which were sealed, there was nothing wrong with my “coffeepot”, the house.
What had failed was my process of maintaining it.
Which is now so strict we can setup open heart surgery in my kitchen.

What we have built requires our constant attention or it returns to its native state of chaos. The 3D world in particular, is extremely fragile.

It requires us, you, to be in it.

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Rock Star Take On TIME | The New Rock Star Channel (new video)

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Rock Star Take On TIME
| The New Rock Star Channel
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The New Rock Star Channel is back!
With a new format:
– 10 minute video
– no preparation

This week, the twenty-fourth video.
A Rock Star Take On TIME

video recorded Monday 2 February 2026

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production note:
An earlier version of this video was already processed, when I decided to delete it because a newly bought ring light was not positioned correctly, ruining 3 videos.
Today, I’ve started recreating them, starting with this one, but I’m still not using it correctly apparently.
The ringlight actually appears to be doing absolutely nothing from its current position, and like it managed to ABSORBE the natural light! 😱
So thank you for your patience.
I sincerely hope February is the month, I get the hang of it!💡
Worst case, I will have to go back to daylight-only, just like the Dutch masters before me! 🖌️🎨🖼️
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In this video;

1. We’re back! 00:00
With a Rock Star Take on TIME
Despite the rule that I don’t prepare these videos;
I did prepare this one!

Because I already recorded this video, but it wasn’t good.
I had to delete, so this is the second time I am recording it.
And I did some research on the topic, just to see if I can make this one better.

2. Chronos and Kairos 01:22
In ancient Greece they had different concepts of time. The most well-known are Chronos and Kairos.
Chronos is the chronological time, from our calendars and clocks. It is very much intertwined with productivity and daily life.
Kairos is about “the life in your time”, the texture, quality and richness of the time.

Kairos also represents using an opportunity.
Depicted as shooting an arrow through a small window of opportunity, the moment it appears.

3. And the 3rd time-concept: Aion 03:29:05
Representing eternal time and also the seasons.
The seasons of nature but also your personal seasons.
Aion rules death, rebirth, new life and the afterlife.

Aion creates natural time-windows for Kairos (a rich time-experience) to happen.

4. Chronos, Kairos and Aion in your life 04:57
Including the terrifying story about the giant Chronos, who is still nipping at our heels!
And Kairos as the most actionable of the three.

5. Rock concerts as example 06:44
Rock concerts give you a more in-the-moment experience of time.
Rock concerts’ appeal is partially, because they are an in-the-moment Kairos, not Chronos, experience.

6. Our desire for Kairos 08:32
We don’t have to wait for a rock concert!
We can find Kairos time everywhere, in our daily lives.

Next up is our seasonal video of the Rock Star Take On
SEXUALITY
Winter edition 2026.

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if you love someone set them free | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today | 22nd in the “Lost Posts” series | 2026 01 30 + 2023 07 18 (OG)

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if you love someone set them free,
set them free,
free

It is only in freedom we can see what’s ours;
Our lover.
Our friends.
Our aligned work.

Let silence, patience, and non-grasping, open the path to destiny

original posted on my social media
18 July 2023

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Retrieved, story added and reposted Jan 2026

A Twin Flame. Soulbond. And other concepts which also came up, as I engaged in the pleasure of deciphering what it all means!
The men.
The crushes.
And how it’s always the same men who made a real mark.

In the realm of soul twin jargon, which I did not learn until recently, regular relationships have an entirely different status.

I would describe them as more tangible, but also more pliable. Susceptibel to improvement. And they’re happily tied to all kinds of structures such as family, friends and other social networks, but also to government organizations slash, institutions.

F.e. in the Netherlands a Living-Together contract has the same status as marriage.
Effectively, and involuntarily, tying the knot for couples still on the fence when migrating here from abroad.
Foreshadowing that here all formally acknowledged relationships are treated equally.

Yet soul bonds, on the other hand, do not require anything to survive.
Not words, not confessions, not declarations, not visibility, and no paperwork.

But despite being so ethereal, I do think even soul bonds can be undone.

The method I have seen working, multiple times actually, is when you fall in love, choose, but most importantly have sex with your soul bond’s friend. Preferably their best friend but definitely without informing the soul bond.
Boom! A nuclear blast.

And there may be other methods, which I don’t know. However normal breakups do not work for soul bonds. Not even when followed by no contact for years in a row.

If anything, the (telepathic?) bond becomes more pure, more intense.

Because what is really made in heaven, cannot be undone by Man.
Not unless you’re prepared to bring extremely big guns.


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Starting June 2023, they found their final form as blogposts here on the Catacombe blog, pretty quickly.

But I’ve always been aware there were singular posts/ borderline poetry, still on social media, floating somewhere down my timeline.

Some at the beginning when I did not know what this series would be.
Some around the time in October/November 2023, when I lost access to this site.
And then a few in between.

And in addition to that there are the ones I did post on the blog, but whose stories revolve around things I no longer offer.
I will retrieve those too;
And give them a new story, that has the timeless quality they deserve.

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The Work | 2026 01 27 | That ONE Book (start at any page)

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It’s impossible to put the pieces together, or establish the chronology of things.
All I can say is that by now, I have become one with what I do. And I mean, what I actually do when “left unsupervised” which I always think is such a cute expression when used for adults.
But also when I am “supervised”!

Because I still do it when logically speaking, socially speaking, or economically speaking, I should be doing something else.

I’ve even had an entire era of my life where I did not attend to my health at all, but this comes with the disclaimer that I could afford to not pay attention because my work as a yoga teacher provided a solid foundation.
I rode my bicycle to my classes, did a lot of yoga, and the night time classes prevented me from going out.
So although I drank alcohol, the occasions to do so were extremely limited.

But I suspect that if I had not taught yoga, but had had a job at an office, I would still not have made an effort health wise.

So this work, for me, is writing.
That, is the thing I actually did when people assumed I was a yoga teacher, a business owner, and so on.
To this day, people assume that by work I mean my professional life.

When it is not, and it has never been.
And the exact same thing goes for you.
What you love doing, is what you are designed to do, here on this earth.

Many assume that “it” can’t be it!
Because of a string of reasons tied to either the financial side of it, or because it’s so much fun; “Anyone would want that”.

No; YOU want that!
And yes, it’s still your work even if it doesn’t make you money.

This thing is your calling, and it has been carved into the deepest layers of your being.
This was not left up to chance.

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I’m going for writing 365 chapters over the course of 9 years, and then bring it to print.
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with new Problem Solver Troll | CREATOR series w. troll dolls (new video)

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with new Problem Solver💙Troll
| CREATOR series w. troll dolls
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This week episode 2:
“with new Problem Solver💙Troll”

Let’s plan our week, and this week special attention for how to plan XL Trolls
+ introducing the problem solver troll + doing a week review on Friday.

We’re on the The New Rock Star Channel.
So we use the analogy of planning one week of a rock star tour, where the choice for different gigs symbolize the art your post on your social media.

video recorded on Saturday 24 January 2026

Content is art!
A 100 Years from now, what you’ve shared online will have survived you.
Consistency now, means a legacy later.

“But how?!” you may ask.

In 2025 I more or less accidentally tripled if not quadrupled my content, and without any of the stress it used to give me.
Accidentally, because I wasn’t looking for that.
But more or less, because I know exactly what system I was applying, and why it worked.

In this new CREATOR series, we explore the system’s different elements, and how they might help you.
I’m getting help from the trolls, who have given us access to their four storey dollhouse.

The only rule for these videos is:
– no preparation
Because any process you don’t know by heart, belongs in the trash bin!

—
Playlist of this series (all videos):
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CREATOR series w. troll dolls
—
In this video;

1. Welcome to a new episode in the CREATOR series 00:00
Where I share a planning system for content creators. And I know how dry that sounds!
But I quadrupled my content in 2025, without any of the stress, so I’m just gonna share how I did it and what choices it required.

{ Story continues at 2. below this outline of the different elements }
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LEGENDA:
🏠The Dollhouse
Represents the whole process from idea, to content creation, to posting.
In my example the dollhouse represents a process of 1 week, in which the trolls are moved from the basement (idea phase) to the balcony (posted).
For this series the whole dollhouse is one week of a tour from a rock band.
🤎💚💜The Trolls
Represent different pieces of content.
Larger trolls take more time to create, and smaller trolls less time.
For this series each troll represents one performance.
💙Large pink troll, Poppy the Problem Solver
🦸🏻‍♂️Tour manager, also known as “Daddy”
🧐The Basement:
Represents the idea phase, everything you may want to make.
Including Moving Targets- which of course cannot be moved up the stairs.
And ideas (trolls) that are too big, and cannot be moved up the stairs either.
For this series we see the basement as where the Tour Manager receives different offers of where the band could play.
✅First Floor: Ready Room
These are the trolls that are small enough to be moved up the stairs, and that you want to create within the next week.
For this series, each troll in the Ready Room represents a concert you want to organize.
🔧⚙️🛠️Second Floor: Doing
These are trolls (pieces of content) you started to work on, but that are not done yet.
For this series, each troll on the Doing Floor, represents a concert that has not been fully organized yet.
🥳 Attic: Dome of Done
These pieces of content are done. You could post them anytime, or they’re already scheduled.
For this series, each troll in the Dome of Done, represents a concert that is all mapped out and ready to rock.
📢🎤 Balcony: The (online) World
Here’s where your babies are proudly shared with the world, they’re posted online.
For this series, each troll on the balcony represents a concert that is currently taking place or has taken place earlier this week.
—
2. Why your content matters 01:10
Because as a creative your content = ART
You’re the Warhol of our times!

3. THIS WEEK 03:34
In this second video:
🧐 select trolls in the basement
🦸🏻‍♂️ Daddy the Tourmanager
Showing you the Superman doll I picked, representing the role of deciding which pieces of content you will create this week
✅ bring them to the Room of Ready (first floor)
🔧⚙️🛠️move them through “Doing”
Or leaving them there, overnight.
🥳 getting them to the Dome of Done (attic)
📢🎤 and releasing them onto the balcony

🔑🔑🔑Keys to make this system work
🔑🛒consciously selecting pieces of content you want to create
This means breaking pattern with a free flow of creativity (it will not be for everybody)
🔑🔳🔲 separating creating from posting
This is what takes the stress out of it, but again, it may not want to be what you want.
F.e. if your art involves posting about real time events.
new 3rd key:
🔑🧐🤓🩺📈Reviewing your problems and solving them

The next CREATOR series with troll dolls
will go out on this blog.
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wall off | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today | 21st in the “Lost Posts” series | 2026 01 23 + 2023 07 17 (OG)

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wall off

More than creating;
more than building,
connecting,
even more than nurturing, investigating;
And definitely more than expressing your truest deepest self and purpose work-

You are to hold the space where any or all of these things can happen.

original posted on my social media
17 July 2023

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Retrieved, story added and reposted Jan 2026

What I can add 2.5 years after writing those sentences is that they’re still valid. Yet although I cannot name new social media or other digital sorcery that may now permeate your carefully created walls more than before;
I do think something has made our jobs harder.

But what, right?
The news, the wars, the mayhem?
A multitude of global threats closing in?

What is it, that has shifted so dramatically to our detriment that I’m pretty sure I’m right on this one, yet cannot name it?
Don’t know…

But walling off to concentrate on your creative work has become more difficult, and many would argue irresponsible.
This comes from the idea that art is always created in conversation with the world.
The art of walling off is also about choosing which parts of the world to let in.
And about which parts of your own story, or your own suffering, to share. In particular when they are tied to larger events, or to a broader audience.

And yet, devil’s advocate here, I always regretted it when I did. I totally understand the stance that artists are the most logical choice to interpret and make sense of our times.
Make records of it.
Yet when I did tie my work to my personal experiences, or to a particular hook on current events, it ultimately never aged well.

Not even when what I had made had helped people. It sounds so selfish to admit that the content was feeling meaningless despite knowing it had been of tremendous value.
Yet, maybe, this reveals the point.

That it’s not about whether your work is hailed or rejected. But to create simply, and only, what you are called to, on that particular day.
To never ever look back.

And to trust that the walls will hold.


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I have been consistently posting “What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today” for a while now.
Starting June 2023, they found their final form as blogposts here on the Catacombe blog, pretty quickly.

But I’ve always been aware there were singular posts/ borderline poetry, still on social media, floating somewhere down my timeline.

Some at the beginning when I did not know what this series would be.
Some around the time in October/November 2023, when I lost access to this site.
And then a few in between.

And in addition to that there are the ones I did post on the blog, but whose stories revolve around things I no longer offer.
I will retrieve those too;
And give them a new story, that has the timeless quality they deserve.

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A Year Of Writing | Share Your Work 2026 01 22

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It’s been a restless start. And unsurprisingly, since I already put it in the title, I landed on this year needing my commitment in writing.
I know we’re well into January and the time for resolutions is over, but my challenge is going to be 52 weeks from this day forth.

Focused, not on videos.
Not on posting.
Not on staying connected.
Not on career.
Not on social life.
Not on friendships.
And not even on my love life, which is saying something because that has been a priority (a quest!) for a very long time, but No.

This is the year of writing.
And of leaning into the tremendous social pressure I still feel when I say that out loud.

Yet trust me, it is the only true answer.
And it has been, for 20 years because 2026 is my 20 year anniversary of being a writer, and I immediately sensed the shift when it happened.
I knew my life would never be the same again, and that I would be in a forever battle between offering the world a palpable version of myself.
And what I truly was.

Someone devoured by creativity.
And with tremendous power.

I have tried to water it down, cushion its razor sharp edges, paint over its neon colors, and sweeten its astringent taste. But ultimately this is just who I am and what is very much going to be part of our relationship.
And the safest thing I can do for both of us, is be upfront about who you’re dealing with.

Even if you work with me in one of my many other roles, this thing will tower above us.
It will color everything I do or say, it has been a part of me for two decades and I have become it.
The tower and the person are one.

For 52 weeks, I will write 10 hours a week, including making the Canva (which is visual storytelling) and long form or personal correspondence.

I will also stop lying about how much it matters to me, to be a writer.
And if you push, I will even admit how shockingly little everything else matters to me.

I will finally and fully accept that what happened 20 years ago, can no longer be undone.

I am a writer.

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Earthling | 2026 01 20 | That ONE Book (start at any page)

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Writing this in 2026, I can say:
“Another year, another World Economic Forum conference.”
Because this meetup in Davos is taking place on the day this is posted.

But a decade from now, I have no idea what world you are in.
You could be reading these stories in the printed form of a book, or you could be my cave buddy and you’re helping me out with the clay tablets.
Focused on the work of leaving some mark of civilization behind.

But whatever our different living situations might be, what we probably share is that our lives are like children’s.
All important decisions are made without us, being told just enough simplistic Sunday school versions of the truth, to be informed.
At least, technically.

Yet even that layer is one we should cherish, because it is directly linked to media providing at least some form of accountability.

In Europe, international power structures have been in place for thousands of years.
Yet the people were not informed, not educated, pitted against one another and weaponized to do the dirty work. 
We are not in a good situation, but at least this day and age we know who’s coming for us.

It reminds me of this ancient story, about a land worker who sees the king being carried around, and wishes he were the king.
And the story is much longer than I remember, but it ends of course in the king looking at the worker and wishing he were them.
Relieved of the constant worry and responsibility.

So maybe whatever our times, or however our situation, the work is the same.
The work right in front of you.
It’s the everyday things.

Perhaps the wisdom for the ages is to focus on the work that has been given to you.
Nothing more, yet certainly nothing less.

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Rock Star Take On INFINITY | The New Rock Star Channel (new video)

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Rock Star Take On INFINITY
| The New Rock Star Channel
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The New Rock Star Channel is back!
With a new format:
– 10 minute video
– no preparation

This week, the twenty-third video.
A Rock Star Take On INFINITY

video recorded Friday January 16th 2026

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Or watch the foundational video first, from 24th Oct 2024:
https://youtu.be/AQCIWDhaK4E
2 Rock Star Things That Took Me 25 Years To Find Out
OR All videos with the playlist of this series: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNB-coaKIJpD5pxPVdrsGG37nvPCaXZIU
The New Rock Star Channel
—

In this video;

1. We’re back! 00:00
With a Rock Star Take on INFINITY
Because I recently learned two most interesting things!

2. The 3D World 01:00
And why infinity doesn’t have a place here.
The laws of earth do not support the combination of infinite + anything, creating destruction and chaos.
Infinity should only be applied onto what is intangible;.

3. The Infinite World 02:05
There’s very little attention to the areas of life where the principle of infinity would actually apply!
Love, spiritually, consciousness, possibilities, timelines

4. The Masculine and the Feminine 03:15
Meaning two principles, not necessarily referring to gender.
Because we all have a masculine side and a feminine side within us.

But these labels, masculine and feminine, can be applied to the concept of infinity, providing a pretty solid explanation of society’s obsession with it!
And why the other side of the coin is suppressed by our hunger to normalize infinity.
(and what to do about it)

INFINITY only applies to the abstract, and the eternal.

Next the Rock Star Take On
TIME!

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where is your wiggle room? | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today | 20th in the “Lost Posts” series | 2026 01 16 + 2023 07 16 (OG)

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where is your wiggle room?

When things aren’t working, it is because existing systems are opposing you.

Instead of trying to get in through the front door, wonder;
Where are the gates and the borders, at this point, still unchecked?

original posted on my social media
16 July 2023

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Retrieved, story added and reposted Jan 2026

I don’t know if I just didn’t get the memo, or if it was a generational thing and will automatically be ingrained in later generations, but I didn’t have a clue about how patriarchy worked or capitalism, until shockingly late in life.

And although I’m sure there’s nuances which I will never be able to understand because my brain is no longer flexible enough to attain mastery here;
I did land on two simple rules of thumb which, so far, got me through.

One.
Anything of value, is in your own time.

And two, which I usually ignore because it’s just so bleak:
That all aggression and criminal behavior go unpunished when ran over existing power structures.
Being held accountable for your crimes basically means you are committing crimes above your paycheck.

Like I said: Bleak.
And that I’m possibly missing a few nuances here.

Compare it to medieval bestiaries where the giraffe has a short neck, the whale looks like a fish and the hyena is a horned cow who digs up people from their grave.
In the same way, my view of how capitalism and patriarchy work is more the product of a rich imagination, and less about facts.

I cannot offer you an accurate evolutionary theory on patriarchy, anymore than a medieval bestiary depicts anatomically correct beasts.

But I can offer you this:

Your survival depends on awareness that patriarchy and capitalism exist.
And having a broad idea of what it looks like.

One day the Darwin of capitalism will rise and rescue us with an Evolutionary Theory. But until then, it is up to us to collect pictures of the beast and learn what we can.
Who has a long neck and eats away above our head.
Who harvests the oceans.

Who will feed of our corpse straight from the grave.


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I have been consistently posting “What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today” for a while now.
Starting June 2023, they found their final form as blogposts here on the Catacombe blog, pretty quickly.

But I’ve always been aware there were singular posts/ borderline poetry, still on social media, floating somewhere down my timeline.

Some at the beginning when I did not know what this series would be.
Some around the time in October/November 2023, when I lost access to this site.
And then a few in between.

And in addition to that there are the ones I did post on the blog, but whose stories revolve around things I no longer offer.
I will retrieve those too;
And give them a new story, that has the timeless quality they deserve.

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