set your biggest (love) goals this weekend

The only purpose worthy of your life, is the one that generates the most love.

And not to receive love, because I do not believe that is what the adulated aspired for.

But where can you give the greatest love?

Or where can you divide your generous heart over many, perhaps millions, different souls.

Where can you give, the most.

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It happened decades ago and although I didn’t integrate the memory immediately;
When I chose my own path, in 2006, I was quick to dig this one up from old agendas.

What had been that day, or more specifically, that night?
The one I knew I would have more time for now, to contemplate over.

My thoughts of other men, or remembering their presence, no longer came with the sense of guilt.
I was free now, to think of whomever I wanted and whenever I wanted.

And I found the memory back.
And although there was more engaging or more worthy evidence of our encounter, to me these simples dates at the end of August, would turn out as the one that stuck.

The 30th and 31st of August.
Year after year after year.

And for the longest time, I thought it had something to do with the promise of the new schoolyear (on the Northern Hemisphere).
Although regular schools usually started in August already, and it was only in academics where I cannot remember ever starting in August.

Throughout my youth summer holidays had always ended in August, yet September 1st started ingraining itself as a kind of done-for-you, actionable “January 1st”!
All you have to do is follow the lines, because someone already has a plan for you for the upcoming ten months.

So my sweet memories of that night blended with the calm and sturdy productivity of the year ahead.
No longer knowing which was which, and just enjoying the flow of moving into the new year.

Until today it suddenly hit me, what it had been about that night that had made it so special.
So memorable, that it was one of the first things I excavated from my past as soon as I became single.

And that it had actually been a night of deep love.

A night of feeling so unabashedly for another human being.
And with the other not just reciprocating, although he certainly did, but more than that, it was someone who could receive.

Someone who thought it was totally normal and logical, and appropriate that I liked being with him.
As underdeveloped our psychology was at the time, simply because there wasn’t much awareness about how to create a space, a relationship, between two people – in many ways 21st century ten year olds are more socially adept then him and me must have been then-
And yet, I believe there was a sense of We between us.

There was an incredible level of trust, and we felt that and shared things and built intimacy in a way that I would have a hard time recalling ever repeating that.

And certainly, not in that short a time.

It was a sea of love, trust and mutual adulation, all wrapped up into one night together.

And when I say dream your biggest dreams this weekend. Find your purpose. And let it be love.
Then yes, I know the aspects of our lives that we control are limited. Chance encounters cannot be planned. And you cannot build your next ten months assuming there will be any.

But what you can do is to let the stories of when you loved the most, when you were totally smitten, help you stand your ground in choosing your projects and priorities.

What are the topics, the people, the activities, where you are overflowing with love you have to share?

And to promise yourself, that you will start by “chasing” those. Choosing love. And that the only reason to abandon it is if a bigger love, suddenly comes your way.

~Suzanne Beenackers
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It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

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