Category: what do Rock Stars need to hear today?

you can’t be visible and invisible at the same time | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 01 21

Published on by Suzanne BeenackersLeave a comment

you can’t be visible and invisible at the same time

Once you know your fate is to be big, all the places where you have been making yourself smaller in order to fit in and not rock the boat;
They either get to go.

Or get the life-sized you.

—

I am writing this story after a few days of hesitating. Unsure when I am ready to reveal the deeper truths, not just here, but also in my yoga work.

And I guess the truth is, you’re never ready. There isn’t a moment when your story is finished, your explanations solid, and you can coach people through their emotions of grappling with the uncomfortable truth that the You they loved, was not the fullest, realest you.

Or was no longer the real you – maybe you were hiding a change.

As a Rock Star, what matters to you MOST, your deepest values, your core motivations, the one thing you cannot NOT do, and yes, in all probability even your biggest pain;
THAT SHOULD ALL BE VISIBLE AND IN THE LEAD!!!

So.
If for a long time, you have felt stagnated and are even regressing backwards in your development;
If things you could do, you can no longer do;
And ambitions you used to have seem further away than ever?

Then look at the places you’re playing small.

You are either small OR you’re a big larger than life badass motherfucker who takes full responsibility for their presence, life, and everyone in it.

The middle road is costing you.
Your life.

.
~Suzanne

I SEE YOU!!!!!!!!!
👀
-> https://catacombenijmegen.com/current-offer/

All offers valid throughout 2024.

+ a new offer just dropped
Sara’s Love | business coaching for women
{ 8 January to June 23, 2024 }

—
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out every two days.
Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
The subscribe button should be somewhere on this page, probably on the top right.

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session, for those who know their biggest secret and most inconvenient “stuff” needs to come to the surface to be integrated with the rest.
To be dealt with immediately. 

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

.

Instagram – Twitter – Rock Star Writer Facebook – Facebook Suzanne Beenackers Schrijver – LinkedIn

you should be able to do it at 2 AM without notice | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 01 18

Published on by Suzanne BeenackersLeave a comment

you should be able to do it at 2 AM without notice

See anything on your agenda that requires proper preparation, 8 hours sleep, ideal weather conditions or the perfect planetary alignments for what it is;
A mistake.

—

Over the past couple of years I’ve start-stopped several YouTube series, on both my international YouTube YouTube, as well as my Dutch YouTube. But I’ve also done that blogging, and for doing my posting on Social Media.
Start-stopped.
I’m experiencing yet another cull and clean cycle for my Dutch work, and although I’m getting better at it, I am certain that I will make the mistake of committing to projects in the future, which will dry up and need to be stopped (could be silently) because I am just not feeling it anymore.

This round of throwing out creative projects, is in all probability not the final time I need to do this.

Yet the reason is always the same:
It’s stuff I need to prepare.

Whether it’s listening to Bon Jovi concerts before I can blog about it or make a video review about them;
Whether it’s investigating an 80s topic before I can make a video about it (my final one was 10 hours of preparation; I aborted this series immediately after realizing how out of hand this had gotten);
Even vacuuming the rug to shoot a yoga video, setting up the lights and finding my schedules, and getting dressed and makeup done, takes about an hour.
But this final one is an exception-
That’s preparation in order to be able to do your unprepared work!
Which is allowed, sometimes it can’t be helped.

But the work itself should flow out of you.

Not just because your best work is the internalized work;
Not just because preparation is a waste of time and makes the outcome unpredictable;
But because the work that flows out of you gives you energy, and preparation costs you energy.

That’s how you recognize the difference;
If you, out of your own accord, already start doing what others might call “preparation”, then that is your actual work.
Your zone of genius.
Even though someone else might do that to prepare something.

In my case, I can write every time of the day, and night, and my biggest challenge is to NOT write, to avoid over stimulation of my brain and too many hours behind the computer.
I’ve capped it to 5 computer hours a day;
And not getting anything done this first week!

But I can tell you one thing:
It has worked miracles to never ever waste those precious computer (flow!) hours on preparation, ever again.

.
~Suzanne

I never prepare my work, but I do love reading your email in advance!
->

https://catacombenijmegen.com/current-offer/

All offers valid throughout 2024.

+ a new offer just dropped
Sara’s Love | business coaching for women
{ 8 January to June 23, 2024 }

—
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out every two days.
Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
The subscribe button should be somewhere on this page, probably on the top right.

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session, for those who know the burden of having a calling and knowing there is no other path than to answer it comes at least with one perk;
No preparation required. 

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

.

Instagram – Twitter – Rock Star Writer Facebook – Facebook Suzanne Beenackers Schrijver – LinkedIn

men and women are (on) different (budgets) | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 01 15 { longread }

Published on by Suzanne BeenackersLeave a comment

men and women are (on) different (budgets)

Men need to budget their commitments, and minimize them to only those serving their goals and reflecting their values.

Women need to budget flexibility and uncertainty;
And prioritize finding an exit strategy to the situations that leave them no choice.

—

It has been the elephant in the room, or in our case on stage, because Yes;
The concept of striving for Rock Star success is a male one.

Now – perhaps “unfortunately” I might say, but more about that later – this does not mean that women should rule out becoming a Rock Star, deliberately aiming to stand out in their industry, so that they can charge not just the highest rates, but are invited to tables no peer ever got invited to.
Even though the others would show up there for free.

Never ever forget that since ancient Greek times, the labor of women and slaves was not included in the economic system.
Work that to this day is still invisible, underpaid and the actual elephant in the room of our economic system.
And a way bigger elephant than our question;
“Do women make good Rock Stars?”

For over two-thousand years the economic system has been built directly upon the qualities of men.
Much like all medicine that is still tested only to men, this is means that as a woman you need to be mindful.
You can’t trust medicine nor career choices, to be a good one, just because it gave good results for men.

I am definitely not the right yoga teacher to talk about the physiology of this, many of my colleagues are, but the bottom line is women’s nervous systems pay an incredibly high price, when it is exposed to stress.

Yes, even for them:
The warrior, fighter, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, is true!
As far as I can tell.
But in all probability, you’re paying a way higher price than any man would.

Worst case scenario, the way I see it- although that is perhaps too grim!- is that where stress and challenge and even war, could rise a man into the highest version of himself;
For women the effect is what in Lord of the Rings was done to elves, who were tortured until their entire species was turned into trolls.

To avoid this, take a look at the Elven Queen Galadriel:
She lives in the heavily guarded woods of Lothlórien.
No one enters, without her permission.

She can focus on the endgame of defeating Sauron, by blocking out all other distractions, by design.

On the other hand, the men of the story, the fellowship of the nine, are all focused on the same goal, but they are doing their work on the road, location free.
The only one who continuously thinks about how he can fight this war from home and keep his people safe, is Boromir of Gondor, who makes the wrong decision of trying to take the ring from Frodo, in order to use it from within the walls of the city.

The other eight men accept the hardship of their path, without home or proper shelter, and all grow more powerful and wise, enduring and conquering all peril that awaits them.

I made the choice at the time to let Catacombe be about awakening your Rock Star powers, and yes, I chose to almost exclusively target the male path here.
The one taking on the madness and the mayhem and the pressure, and galvanizing it into your biggest dreams.

This is because of that 2000 year old structure of favoring this approach. It doesn’t change the system itself, it works it. Teaches you how to play it, even.

But within that “game”, men and women, and feel free to be more gender neutral here and use which one of those roles resonate with you-
but we have different decisions to make.
We pay a different price;
For women in this system our actions have different consequences for our nervous systems.
We should be more risk-averse than men, and guard the boundaries of our kingdom like hawks, because we pay a way higher price enduring stress.
Worst case scenario it turns us into orcs, with all that made us human now lost.

The Elves are always on the brink of “leaving these shores” as they put it, referring to their people, all of them, leaving for the Undying Lands.
It is not a matter of if they leave, but when.
Middle-Earth is not made for them, anymore than our world of men is made for us.

The men in Lord of the Rings illustrate that they need to guard their commitments carefully.
Even their loyalty to the Fellowship, ultimately proves to be untenable. There can be only one loyalty, one priority, and these all proved to be highly personal.
Only Frodo’s priority was to get the ring into the fires of Mount Doom.
His friend Sam’s was simply to be at Frodo’s side. 
Aragorn’s priority was to do what was necessary to protect his people, mankind.

All men had only one commitment, and that is what gave them the strength to face all hardship along their path.

So may you find yours, Rock Star of the Earth.

All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.
Gandalf

 

~Suzanne

A hunted man sometimes wearies of distrust and longs for friendship.
Aragorn.

https://catacombenijmegen.com/current-offer/

All offers valid throughout 2024.

+ a new offer just dropped
Sara’s Love | business coaching for women
{ 8 January to June 23, 2024 }

—
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out every two days.
Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
The subscribe button should be somewhere on this page, probably on the top right.

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session, for those who know they have a calling;
But…. are a bit daunted by it.

“So do all who live to see such times.”
Gandalf

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

.

Instagram – Twitter – Rock Star Writer Facebook – Facebook Suzanne Beenackers Schrijver – LinkedIn

under chaos and mayhem your work gets better | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 01 10

Published on by Suzanne BeenackersLeave a comment

under chaos and mayhem your work gets better

There is a reason Rock Stars can get away with drugs, casual sex and all-night benders that would take the heart of us.

They’re doing exactly, what they’re here for.

—

As you may or may not know, I am a writer.

The “I am” can also come before a lot of professions, such as:
I am a yoga teacher.
I am an entrepreneur.
I am a mentor.
And all would be true.

But there are two reasons why “I am a writer” will always be more true than others.

One is because I will always write. It is unimaginable that I would stop it. Or it IS imaginable!
In theory it would be wise, desirable, practical and very, very welcome, if only it were possible, to stop writing…
Because I can’t, even if my life depended on it.
Which it might, because writing is causing a terrible strain. I know it is by far my most unhealthy habit. Which is why for me it is important to keep the rest of my life (as far as there is a rest!) as stress-free as I can, and do all within my might to get my lifestyle as healthy as possible.
I’m 51 and I’m still struggling, yet I know that if I don’t succeed, if I don’t find a way to somehow moderate and regulate my writing habits, it will cost me two decades of my life if not more.

Yet still, I cannot stop.

The second reason “I am a writer” holds more truth, is that even if I’m sick, sleep-deprived, broken-hearted, or all of the above, not only can I still write;
It actually gets better.

What’s the thing you will do until your dying breath?

~Suzanne

Good news and bad news;
Your no-brainer, have-to work, is The One.

https://catacombenijmegen.com/current-offer/

All offers valid throughout 2024.

+ a new offer just dropped
Sara’s Love | business coaching for women
{ 8 January to June 23, 2024 }

—
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out every two days.
Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
The subscribe button should be somewhere on this page, probably on the top right.

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session, for those who are ruled by whatever it is they do, and wouldn’t be able to stop it, without taking down the entire purpose of their existence.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

.

Instagram – Twitter – Rock Star Writer Facebook – Facebook Suzanne Beenackers Schrijver – LinkedIn

don’t change the show, change your audience | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 01 08

Published on by Suzanne BeenackersLeave a comment

don’t change the show, change your audience

You know whom you’re here to serve.

The ones excited by their good fortune to be walking this earth in the same tiny interval of human life you are.

Which is exactly how you feel about them.

—

The title of today’s post is probably widespread wisdom, but I did not encounter it until I started studying small business marketing.
It must have been around 2012-ish.

I don’t know the exact date, because it wasn’t a conscious choice to start studying marketing, as opposed to my academic business studies, in the early 90s. 
If you pick up studying a topic on internet, no starting dates are saved usually!
Nor do we know it will end up being THE topic! Or one of multiple, you will end up loving the most.

But I do know that the moment a business coach I followed (I think it was Marie Forleo) shared this wisdom:
“Don’t change the show, change your audience.”
It clicked.

It meant don’t change what you sell, change the people you sell it to.

There was something mesmerizing, about this idea of taking the bird’s view perspective of someone filling stadiums (which is my association with your “show”) and applying it to your small business.

It was a shift in perspective that not just gave you more confidence, and planted you firmly into your bigger entrepreneurial boots;
It was also an important time-saving, frustration-preventing, highest-work invoking guideline, for both the entrepreneur, or artist;
As well as for their ideal customer or fan!!

So do your work like people are defying waiting lines and dynamic pricing systems, to get hold of your services.

And give them what they came for;
A show to remember.

~Suzanne

Let’s get your tour posters in order:
->
https://catacombenijmegen.com/current-offer/

All offers valid throughout 2024.

+ a new offer just dropped
Sara’s Love | business coaching for women
{ 8 January to June 23, 2024 }

—
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out every two days.
Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
The subscribe button should be somewhere on this page, probably on the top right.

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session, for those who  know that everything that is NOT part of the show you’re actually here to give?
Needs to go.
So that your true fans can find you.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

.

Instagram – Twitter – Rock Star Writer Facebook – Facebook Suzanne Beenackers Schrijver – LinkedIn

it’s resistance that creates the diamond | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 01 06

Published on by Suzanne BeenackersLeave a comment

it’s resistance that creates the diamond

Two ways, to make good out of the so called bad.
A. Commit to a schedule, a process, a routine, a path you will stick to and be hellbent to go back to!
Or
B. Welcome all rejection, resistance and adversity.
And overcome.

—

About every four, five months, I cull my notebooks AND archive them.
I am in favor of keeping anything that allows you to track your development, and is a document of your personal history.

Cd collections which stopped growing around 2010;
A paper diary archive that has its own litters;
Heavy envelopes with letters, from when you lived abroad;
Holiday scrapbooks.

However, next to keeping consistent cover to cover diaries (or logs), which are indeed filed the moment they are full;
I also start, ink, scribble, use and then ghost notebooks with a vigor that easily allows for six, seven notebooks to be in use at once.

Until, at number 9, 10 or 15, I am like:
“That’s it! I’m cutting it to ONE!”
I never cut it to one but I do cull drastically.

And after such a pages cut-out and rebinding operation (I have a stationary collection that would be able to keep a 90s printing room running for a week) there is a deep satisfaction that the job is done.
All notes stored in their right chronological order.
Yet always that same question:

WHY did I write all this down?!
WHY was I so much in my head?
WHY was I bullet journaling and micro-managing my life, when in reality I do not have the personality to enforce productivity improvements nor to remember any of the profound insights.

So for all you avid planners yet never-follow-uppers:
All you writing downers yet never rereaders;
It’s method 2.

Collect rejections, embrace adversity, and lean into resistance.
Writing your adventures down afterwards, optional.

.
~Suzanne

Let’s mine for those diamond rocks, underneath the notebook rubble.
->
https://catacombenijmegen.com/current-offer/

All offers valid throughout 2024.

—
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out every two days.
Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
The subscribe button should be somewhere on this page, probably on the top right.

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session, for those who  may or may not be struggling with a notebook addiction, but who definitely know they came here to lean into the resistance;
And collect the rocks, accordingly.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

.

Instagram – Twitter – Rock Star Writer Facebook – Facebook Suzanne Beenackers Schrijver – LinkedIn

your game plan does not require the other to show up | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 01 04

Published on by Suzanne BeenackersLeave a comment

your game plan does not require the other to show up

You know your goal and your preferred way of getting there, spending as little resources as possible and picking up bonus points.
You have a plan B and you know the maximum you can afford to spend.

But what if others do not show up, to bargain?
—
My year did not exactly end the way I had hoped.
And even took a picture (definitely without any intention of ever sharing it publicly 😅) of my teary eyed snotty nosed, crying face, to remind myself how hard this thing had hit me.

Until the real message dropped in, of course:
My 2023 game plan had had holes the size of medium-sized trucks!

And I had, well, not so much refused to address them, because I had;
But my follow-up strategy when the opposing party did not show up to figure this out, had been absolutely non-existent…

I had fallen into the trap which has taken out some of the most talented and most promising players in very early stages of the game (and swallowed them whole) which is:
To count on the other player showing up to play.

To actually have a head full of brilliant strategies all mapped out for different occasions, and to then, when the other just isn’t there-
go blank.

Wait a little while longer.

Hear half-assed excuses a five year old could debunk, and still you’re not responding.
Head spinning with all the things you were going to say, but that are now nothing more but dead weight.
Pulling you down even further.

Trust me, for 2024?
If you’re a good player, and you know your goal?
Then you’ve GOT the big stuff!
And you’ve GOT the small stuff!
You CAN anticipate, shift, and adjust quicker than lightning, responding to whatever comes your way!

So for this year, make plans only for this;
What if nothing comes your way?

.
~Suzanne

Let’s setup your 2024 game plan.
->
https://catacombenijmegen.com/current-offer/

All offers valid throughout 2024.

—
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out every two days.
Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
The subscribe button should be somewhere on this page, probably on the top right.

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session, for those who  have found themselves more than once, looking for an answer to someone, or something, that isn’t there.
A ghost, where you expected a bulk of energy, a big wall, or even a powerful adversary!

Let’s find a way to monetize, or even weaponize, this silence.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

.

Instagram – Twitter – Rock Star Writer Facebook – Facebook Suzanne Beenackers Schrijver – LinkedIn

it is not their journey | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2023 12 29

Published on by Suzanne BeenackersLeave a comment

it is not their journey

You did not just come with different talents, passions, personality, values and a vision which by definition does not match what those around you expect the future to hold.

You came wired with what’s needed to accomplish it.
—
There are two things you need to hear today, not one.

The first is that it is not their journey. It is not their life. The people around you are not the ones whose path this is, and to accomplish whatever it is you know you are.
And I know you get that, on an intellectual level.
But understand that it makes you different.
The thoughts you hold, the choices you make, the identity you carry, the way you see yourself.
It is different.
Do not, ever, waste time explaining or even analyzing this, anymore than the bear and the eagle would compare fishing techniques.

The second thing you need to hear today, is that despite not seeing your fishing techniques mirrored in others, receiving critique on them, or being blamed for not joining the fishing party that was organized and why are you never there;
Hold the course.

Because it, the thing that haunts you and that you know you must and cannot not do;
It IS not their journey.

But it is very much, undeniably, unmistakably and inevitably;
YOURS!

Now look on your back, what God gave you.

~Suzanne

I know what you’re fishing for.
->
https://catacombenijmegen.com/current-offer/

New offers for 2024 just dropped, and I look forward to welcoming you.

—
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out every two days.
Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
The subscribe button should be somewhere on this page, probably on the top right.

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session, for those who  have learned there is no other way, than to accept not just the journey, but everything that comes with it.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

.

Instagram – Twitter – Rock Star Writer Facebook – Facebook Suzanne Beenackers Schrijver – LinkedIn

hold the course (you know this) | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2023 12 27

Published on by Suzanne BeenackersLeave a comment

hold the course (you know this)

It’s advice given by many different teachers, using many different metaphors, but what it usually doesn’t say is WHY, you should hold the course.

The reason is, that doubting the course almost without exception, means you’re doubting the destination.

Never doubt your goal.
“And out of nothing, and out of no way, a way will be made.”
(Michael Bernard Beckwith)

—

Today is one of the harder days for me to write. I live in the Netherlands, and we celebrate two days of Christmas, two and a half if you count Christmas Eve, so I have not been posting the past couple of days.
Not because I am principally against working through the holidays, but simply because there was no time, and because there was an incident where I live, which caused my most stressful night of the year.

So for better or for worse, I did not show up online this Christmas.
A questionable decision, in my case. And I would say in the case of every soul inspired entrepreneur or artist.
But why?

SHOULD, we show up for our audience or for our art every day?
Is it necessary for our survival to do so?
Are we slaves to the kick of being visible, or to selling, are we ruled by work?
No.

But what does happen, is that our goals are so ingrained with our moves, with our everyday showing up at our desk, in our studio, or work space;
That if we don’t do it, we lose touch with them.
Which in our case means we lose touch with our very soul.

So show up daily, hold the course by simply doing whatever it is you do.
And a way will be made.

.
~Suzanne

Are you willing to start trusting the work, to do the work for you?
->
https://catacombenijmegen.com/current-offer/

New offers for 2024 just dropped, and I look forward to welcoming you.

—
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out every two days.
Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
The subscribe button should be somewhere on this page, probably on the top right.

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session, for those who  know there is no other choice than to surrender to the work itself, and to let the way unfold.
And that even if there was a choice;
They would pass.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

.

Instagram – Twitter – Rock Star Writer Facebook – Facebook Suzanne Beenackers Schrijver – LinkedIn

there is an area where this does not intimidate you | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2023 12 23

Published on by Suzanne BeenackersLeave a comment

there is an area where this does not intimidate you

A tangible area like an audio technician’s board;
Or software you master and where a new update would excite you;
Not throw you off track.

The abstract realms of money, ideas, concepts, creativity.

Or the planes of flesh, bone, blood and human emotions.

—
You can compare it to food, the way we choose it, the way we relate to it;
We can all eat fastfood.
Fast food does not require us to have anything in place in order to be able to receive it. It does not require knowledge nor context of the food, in order to be able to enjoy it.

We can consume it day after day, in different locations and of different providers, and still we would not encounter any situations where a lack of understanding would start to hinder us.

But if you would dissect the mind of a gastronomic expert, you would find a whole mental world with terms, cabinets, files, and vocabulary.
They are not just able to receive and enjoy a meal;
But they could name it, describe it, and then store the experience in their mental library.

You too, have an area where every time you do it, you add a layer to your own mental library.
As opposed to people for whom it is just a fastfood area of their life, you grow richer, with every encounter.

This is not just an indication of it being your purpose work;
The work that will never be matched by any other thing, unless it comes to you as naturally as this one did.

But this is also the place where your happiness lies.
Your, happiness.

.
~Suzanne

Can you see the path has been right in front of you, all the time?
->
https://catacombenijmegen.com/current-offer/

New offers for 2024 just dropped, and I look forward to welcoming you.

—
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out every two days.
Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
The subscribe button should be somewhere on this page, probably on the top right.

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session, for those who understand that what they came here to do was encoded into their DNA.
Probably from day 1….
And remember how these topics were present when they were children or teens.

In an undefined shape, not recognizable as a profession or a business model.
Yet undeniable present all along, and looking back;
Of great importance.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

.

Instagram – Twitter – Rock Star Writer Facebook – Facebook Suzanne Beenackers Schrijver – LinkedIn