Category: what do Rock Stars need to hear today?

we need you daily | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 07 28

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we need you daily

It doesn’t have to be new content and it also doesn’t need to be the same formula every day.
Anything that can be squeezed into your social media will do.

But it needs to be something that comes straight from your soul to ours, and that pulls us in, moves us, and leaves us in awe and fascination.

Hungry for more.

—

This is one against the grain, and even against my own logic. The one that tells me “but I first have to….!” or “I can’t because!”

And I’m not even going to claim I always make the wisest choices in the area of showing up for social media presence myself, but here’s the gist of what I have come to understand, and you can HOLD me to this for the upcoming fifty years or so.

Moving 2024 and up, the Rock Star artists, independents, and people building a sustainable business that will last them the rest of their lives need to master the art of showing up daily.

We NEED to SEE you.

This is not just part of your job, that IS your job.

And then;
Walk away from the explosion.
Just like the movies.
Don’t linger.

Does a rock star invite everybody to drop their comments asking what they thought about the show?
No, I don’t think so either.
They walk out, and before the applause is over they are in a car leaving the premises.

And why?
Because a live rock show, by its very nature, is exactly right for the day and the place. 
And guess what my friend?
So is yours.

Don’t let the recording and collecting of your messages drive you nuts or leave you disheartened;
Let it fall by the wayside if you must.
Curating your messages is not your job.

Nor is reviewing them, criticizing them, judging them, or in anyway not backing this part of what it is you’re doing.

This is the new era, where our words are not collected into books that will last for generations.
Our photos are not printed into hundred dollar coffee table books, instead they are fed to AI, where they will live on forever and at the same time die in their essence.

So it is not WHAT you bring, it is the fact that you PERSONALLY, bring it. And that it comes from YOUR hand, that makes it so valuable.
It is timely, contemporary.
It is NOW.

Your work on social media is you appearing personally.
And yes, of course you also have a powerful message, but it will no longer be the message nor the specs nor the quality of your work, that will make the mark.
Not, what will make you Rock Star-unique.

It is your ability to ride the highest waves in that stormy ocean.

To be there on the frontier of the newest media, and to stand your ground.
To back yourself.
To BE, there.
Wave after wave and day after day after day.

That, is not just your job;
It is your legacy.

.
~Suzanne
Rock Star Writer.

signature offer:  The Rock Star 2024

brand new monthly mentoring:
THE COUNCIL

.

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

————-.

This blog
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out as often as needed!

Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
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But no additional or promotional emails are sent – just the blog, sec.

Promotions are very rare, but if available, they’re posted on Instagram and Rock Star Writer Facebook.
If you don’t use social media, feel free to say so with your application.
If there is a special offer I will email it to you.

.

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*your name here* unplugged | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 07 23

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*your name here* unplugged

Strip your work to its barest parts.
Your marketing.
Packaging.
Pricing.
Your tactics, formulas, methods, the endless generation and chasing of new things.

Stop.

Let it all go, down to the very essence of what people pay you for.
You.

—

As creatives we are born with problems in this capitalist world which no one, and I mean no one, needs to envy;
The endless stream of new and exciting things to do.

I have said on more than one occasion, if writer’s block came in a bottle, I’d pay for that. A lot.

Now maybe you noticed the little adjective there; capitalist, world.
Which is the place where we make money because we sell whatever it is we have to sell. And this needs to be predictable, and not something new every week, unless you know a way to make that something new predictable.

From 2016 to 2023 I followed business coach Katrina Ruth, and I keep reading her books and keep studying the courses I bought.
And she was highly prolific at creating her offers.

Instead of heaving long, carefully planned launches, she’d be launching, meaning selling a new program, every week.
“And two if it’s a Sunday” she’d sometimes cheekily add.

Sunday would then be the closing day for the “old” offer, and she’d drop her new one as well.

Offers could range from new courses – for which she had only written the sales page because the whole program would actually be created on the go!- to reopening an old program and running it again.
From home study courses, to group programs with live calls, to six week one-on-ones and so on.
Prices ranged from under a hundred dollar to a thousand, to ones you could DM her for, to get the price and see if it’s right for you.

Her highest paying group wasn’t even launched, and hardly ever talked about but  from the rare moments she did I understood it was € 10.000 per month or € 100.000 per year.
And that was 4, 5 years ago.

Just to illustrate that when I say to strip away all the extras, and to reinvent an Unplugged version of your “show” where you are bringing it down to the bare essentials, I do not mean we’re all going minimalist here.
Just that we should ONLY be doing the part, that is really us.

Clearly, in the example of Katrina Ruth, launching a new thing every week, was the very essence of who she was.
She works in a different way now.

Who you are is susceptible to change.

You may be someone who offers only one program or one service in 2024, and have twenty different things on your plate in 2034.

But back to that adjective:
Capitalist.
Why did I even bring that up, because it is a bit sour don’t you think?
Couldn’t I just have stuck with writing something inspirational, sweet and short?

The reason I brought it up, is because it is important to understand that capitalism thrives on predictability, which is opposite to the nature of what creativity is.
So if you allow yourself to act on every thought and inspiration, but also on every fear and insecurity, you are undermining your work as a business owner because that is tied to:
“How predictable can you be?”

And many of us, like me, have a lot of creativity but little consistency, which is why I started dreaming of a syrup to end the flow of creativity.
Consistency pays more than creativity.
Yes ouch, I know.

So the very least you can do, is to not engage in things you are neither consistent at, that are not soul-fulfillingly creative, and also, not something you get paid for.

And that also gives you the three reasons to DO things:
-you can do them consistently
-they are soul-fulfillingly creative
-you get paid for them

And the best news is of course that the absolute highest paying, most resilient business model you could possibly come up with, is this;
-something you can do consistently
-AND it is soul-fulfillingly creative!

That, is *your name here* unplugged.

.
~Suzanne
Rock Star Writer.

signature offer:  The Rock Star 2024

brand new monthly mentoring:
THE COUNCIL

.

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

————-.

This blog
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out as often as needed!

Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
The subscribe button should be somewhere on this page, probably on the top right.

Catacombe is email-list free!!

Yes – you can subscribe to receive new blogposts;
But no additional or promotional emails are sent – just the blog, sec.

Promotions are very rare, but if available, they’re posted on Instagram and Rock Star Writer Facebook.
If you don’t use social media, feel free to say so with your application.
If there is a special offer I will email it to you.

.

NEW founded in MAY 2024: SUBSTACK
free memberships provided
other socials:
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do what only you can do | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 07 12

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do what only you can do

There used to be stories of mastery costing 10.000 hours.
Are they still passed on?

But it is your own unique way of doing it, that makes the difference.

Whether one hour in, or reflecting back on a life well lived.

—

“Is there no one else?!”
Brad Pitt’s Achilles cries out, after having killed the opposing army’s best fighter in one strike.
“Who are you?” the elderly army commander asks, in wonder.
“Achilles, son of Peleus.”
“Achilles…. I will remember the name.”

You too have an area where you can take out the competition, even when you show up late and just spent the night in a field tent with too much wine and too many sexual partners whose existence you will forget before the day has passed.

An area where you do not even have to try, and yet it would be an impossibility to not let every action be one of effortless grace and beauty.
With people staring, wanting to be near you and work with you, just to witness its perfection once more.

But contrary to Achilles, who was aware his hand was the one deciding the battles, you are probably still showing up for the system.
Your talent underappreciated.

You see, the reason there was no one else to go toe to toe with Achilles, was because the others were paid to be part of the system of the army.
Not to be an individual warrior.
And there were good fighters and bad fighters, and bonusses for the ones taking part of the first line.
But ultimately all were paid first and foremost, to stay within the ranks.

Achilles’ divine mother, knew his choice.
That to go to Troy and to fulfill his destiny, would go hand in hand with what she called his doom.
Or was it?

Because is doom what will end your life?
Or is doom if you do not walk the path that was yours?

If you look back at all the specific details, the context, that taught you the lessons and gave you the talents, and granted you access to the tools and to the people to perfect your craft;
Then what you can do, can never be recreated.

Even if they wanted to, then this day new warriors are born. And they will be trained to fight the battle of their era.
The 10.000 hours that were invested in you, lived through you;
They are meant to be expressed in your own unique way.

And yes, they may lead to what others will call your doom, but is it really?
What would it feel like to come to where you are needed most, and to do what only you can do, and to fully step into your power and glory?

Because you know Achilles was telling the truth.
There really is, no one else.

.
~Suzanne
Rock Star Writer.

.

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

————-.

This blog
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out as often as needed!

Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
The subscribe button should be somewhere on this page, probably on the top right.

Catacombe is email-list free!!

Yes – you can subscribe to receive new blogposts;
But no additional or promotional emails are sent – just the blog, sec.

Promotions are very rare, but if available, they’re posted on Instagram and Rock Star Writer Facebook.
If you don’t use social media, feel free to say so with your application.
If there is a special offer I will email it to you.

.

NEW founded in MAY 2024: SUBSTACK
free memberships provided
other socials:
Instagram – Twitter – Rock Star Writer Facebook – Facebook Suzanne Beenackers Schrijver – LinkedIn

sell the mystery| What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 06 10

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sell the mystery

In the age of social media there are two options;
One is to message anywhere between daily and all day or at least consistently.

But if your energy is heavier and slower, more grounded;
Let your absence do the seducing.

—

I absolutely adore professionals who are on the socials every day.
Or who launch their new thing visiting every podcast that will have them, and do whatever it takes getting their foot in the door, with the ones that don’t want them!
Yet.

Scanning their search results or visiting these people’s timeline comes with a sense of anticipation and excitement!
It’s often, and perhaps even preferably, predictable content. The exact same message, day after day.
Week after week.
Season in, season out.
But always presented with an aliveness that has brought them where they are today.

Sometimes you know them so well, you even know their specials by heart.
And yet, it never ceases to mesmerize you.
I love everything about those professionals;
Their drive.
Their energy.
Their stories and their current offer wrapping you up, like a blanket.

For a few minutes, you’re in their world, and whether you buy something or not, it doesn’t really matter.
You feel refreshed.
Ready to take on whatever it is, you were procrastinating on.

But if being such a powerhouse Rock Star messenger is not you, then cultivate the not being on social media.
Being offline.
Having adventures of which you show us, but a sliver.
Post your photo quoting Rilke or Axl Rose, or both.

Enchant us with your absence, and feed our voracious minds tiny little things to chew on.
Starve us.
Be cruel to us.
Draw us into your Theater of the Unknown,
Your Dome of the Desired.
Promise us every dream and unfulfilled passion coming true.

Or at least hint, boldly, at its possibility.

Leaving all options wide open, wink, and sell us a ticket first row.

.
~Suzanne
Rock Star Writer

.
“Every heightening is good if it occurs in the quick of your bloodstream, if it is not an intoxication, not a troubling but a joy one can see right to the bottom of.”
Rainer Maria Rilke


https://catacombenijmegen.com/current-offer/
All offers valid throughout 2024.

+ final weeks for femme Rock Stars to use this special offer
Sara’s Love | business coaching for women
{ 8 January to June 23, 2024 }

.

“Sometimes your friends are your lovers, or have been at one time, or are at some time or are at different times.”
Axl Rose

.

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

————-.

This blog
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out as often as needed!

Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
The subscribe button should be somewhere on this page, probably on the top right.

Catacombe is email-list free!!

Yes – you can subscribe to receive new blogposts;
But no additional or promotional emails are sent – just the blog, sec.

Promotions are very rare, but if available, they’re posted on Instagram and Rock Star Writer Facebook.
If you don’t use social media, feel free to say so with your application.
If there is a special offer I will email it to you.

.

NEW founded in MAY 2024: SUBSTACK
free memberships provided
other socials:
Instagram – Twitter – Rock Star Writer Facebook – Facebook Suzanne Beenackers Schrijver – LinkedIn

your calling will find you | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 06 07

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your calling will find you

When you close your eyes and open yourself up to universal wisdom;
Thinking deeply.
Contemplating.
Feeling the breath calming and the mind clearing.

Or when you are ecstatically dancing in Flow;
To the beat of the Universal drum.
One with Life itself.

Or whether you are working hard, struggling forward, leaving no stone untouched, with a therapist, a coach or studying a book or a program.

The calling you find is, in all probability, not The One.

—

The deal is really simple here.
Either you are someone who will have a calling, or you are not.
And even if you are someone who has a calling, it can still come in at least two ways;

It can come from the outside moving in;
A pressing quest like Frodo knowing he was the one to take the ring to Mordor.

Or it can come from the inside moving out;
Jezus knowing he was here to do God’s work.

These two examples illustrate a calling is not something you can choose, nor should you be particularly delighted when you find out you have one.
In the classic The Hero’s Journey from Joseph Campbell, there is a reason there are several chapters dedicated just to the part where the hero refuses the calling.
A calling is not something we accept because we think it’s a nice way to spend our lives, because we will be meeting cool people, because we will learn things we have been curious about for a long time;
Nor is it something that will make our lives better, nor necessarily will we be saving others.

Above all, a calling is something you cannot NOT do.
It will risk losing your life, either figuratively because your life is now in service of that (you’ve lost your life to the calling) or you risk losing your life literally due to various perils on your way.

In other words;
You’d have to be pretty lost to voluntarily go look for a calling, or want one.

Fantasies, ambitions, nice-to-have-stuff, cool adventures to want, and massive challenges to take, just to see of you can do it?
Those are the goals that can shape and give direction to our lives, in a fun and meaningful way, without eating us alive.
Without breaking us, without burning our world down, without stripping us from everything we hold dear, and we can still grow, we can find friends for life, and we will have spent our lives in a meaningful and better way because of it.
Growing, and aspiring a worthy goal.

But real callings?
Those are the ones that find you, when you are not looking.
The ones you don’t want, and that are so overwhelming and outside your zone of comfort, you simply have no idea where to begin.

You look around, if there’s not someone else who can do this, but there is no one. If you don’t do this it will not get done, and you know it.
And yet you still refuse.
Run away.
You deject, the real calling.

Which isn’t a problem at all, really. No, seriously, no probs!
‘Cause this one?
Oh, it will find you again.

~Suzanne
Rock Star Writer

.
If we are going to find your calling?
No!
-> https://catacombenijmegen.com/current-offer/

All offers valid throughout 2024.

+ final weeks for femme Rock Stars to use this special offer
Sara’s Love | business coaching for women
{ 8 January to June 23, 2024 }

THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session, for those who have a calling;
And for those choosing their own destiny.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

————-.

This blog
What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today
goes out as often as needed!

Subscribe to receive them in your Inbox.
The subscribe button should be somewhere on this page, probably on the top right.

Catacombe is email-list free!!

Yes – you can subscribe to receive new blogposts;
But no additional or promotional emails are sent – just the blog, sec.

Promotions are very rare, but if available, they’re posted on Instagram and Rock Star Writer Facebook.
If you don’t use social media, feel free to say so with your application.
If there is a special offer I will email it to you.

.

NEW founded in MAY 2024: SUBSTACK
free memberships provided
other socials:
Instagram – Twitter – Rock Star Writer Facebook – Facebook Suzanne Beenackers Schrijver – LinkedIn

you will crave a different coach | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 05 28

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you will crave a different coach

Not just because you are self-reliant;
Not just because you are consumed by inspiration, haunted by unnamed forces of creative power.

But because you know your presence alone, every word you move, and every gesture you speak;
Is a gift given.

—

George Michael once said of sex workers:
“You don’t pay them for sex, you pay them to leave.”
And I imagine he meant that when you have sex with a lover, partner or hook-up, you owe them extra time and courtesy, at a moment when you are ready to wrap up.
You can even be expected to deliver after-care in the form of a text or call, and there’s always a risk of it getting ugly if they wanted more.

When what a professional provides is a pleasant, drama-free goodbye.

Aside from the emotional hygiene, there are more characteristics of sex work, which make for excellent business practices.
But also excellent client practices, or just really “excellent practices”! .
There is no reason why we should limit this skill set to business.

Pleasant practices we should all strive for:
-introducing yourself
-explaining what you are looking for or what appealed to you in the other person or their offer
-asking for a call or date, and waiting for the other to accept. Or to not accept.
-one-off appointments, at a moment or time both parties feel good about
-both parties being courteous and respectful
-actively seeing the good in each other
-asking for consent for every act or move that even remotely qualifies for it!
Every “Yes” or “That would be great.” or “Would you do that for me?!” making both of you feel great. The one who offers, as well as the one who loves to accept.
-drama free goodbyes, without expecting a follow up (courtesy of George Michael)

Now, on the other hand, in the coaching industry, not counting online home-study programs because they do not involve connection and interaction-
but focusing on the rest of the coaching industry, then we’d have to turn every stone to find:
– 1 time, singular, coaching.
It is sometimes offered as a VIP day, private intensive or private workshop. But they are incredibly rare!
And we see 99% coaching run on:
-group programs, including master minds
-1-on-1 coaching programs that include an online training (live or pre-recorded) to support your work together
or
-coaching that covers a certain time period,
*f.e. a year of one-on-one coaching, very often with unlimited (email/ Voxer) messaging, so you’re paying to be in continuous conversation.
*multiple session package.
*or a combination where you pay for a certain time-period but know in advance how often you will speak. F.e. a six week package with a weekly coaching call.

Now don’t get me wrong!
These are all FABULOUS WAYS TO TAKE COACHING!!!!!

But, you guessed it;
Not for Rock Stars.

Nor are they a good fit for anyone with the genetic makeup of a Rock Star.
Which you’ll know soon enough if that’s you, just read on.

Because let’s imagine the late Rock Star George Michael had wanted coaching.
What could have been his issues with these dominant coaching structures?

Well, being George Michael, he knows his presence is worth something. In fact it is worth everything.

He risked that the coach could be using his name, in their marketing or just name dropping it in casual conversation with new buyers;
And he also knew that if he showed up in a Mastermind or a group program, the money should have been given to him.
Not by him.
He would know not to pay to get in;
But to be paid to be there!

And the same goes for studying other people’s material;
Rock Stars have people studying their material!
Always remember you are a creator, not a consumer.

What will also not go well is when a coach asks questions f.e. based on a structure, but it can also be the way they do social interaction in general.

First of all it should come as no surprise that anyone who classifies as a Rock Star would hate being asked questions!
Probably reminds them of journalists! 😉

But there is also a more general principle, why certain people (Rock Stars) will hate being asked questions;

Questions, are overpowering the other person.

But a conversation, is a sign of equality.

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The police asks questions. Your parents asked questions. In a job interview you’re being asked questions.
Nothing says I am the boss, like asking questions.

And if you’re a Rock Star and have a hard time finding professionals, I bet it’s because they are asking questions.

What you’re looking for is someone to have a conversation with, but this means a professional needs to be able to hold themselves at your level. 

The whole dynamic between the two of you, should be based on mutual respect, but also joy, lightheartedness, recognition, and awe.

What you are asking for Rock Star, is for someone who is complementary  in what they bring to the table;
Who is understanding of their own worth, but who is also very aware of yours.

And that you are giving in spades by showing up for your session.

That your presence is your gift.

They are not paid to spend time with you;
But to keep things profesh, and to wrap up lightly!

Leaving it entirely up to you, if there will be another time.

~Suzanne
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It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

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change your timeline to your advantage | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 05 27

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change your timeline to your advantage

Even from the most basic 3D perspective, there already is a version of you that had something in place you’re currently struggling with.

Living as if you are them, there, will give it back to you.
Effortlessly.

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There have been multiple scientific studies around aging, that all proved the surroundings of your younger years have a rejuvenating effect.

You do not have to believe in magic to accept this.
You can see it as the moment you invest in tricking your mind, by removing habits or even skills you picked up in later years;
Moving away from newer technology you acquired, or just from the unhealthy use of it;
Refraining from contemporary culture/ entertainment;
The unnecessary part of aging is reversed.

Focusing on the part we can all agree on is flexible has also been my take on what positive thinking was about as well.
In the 90s we didn’t use the terms mindset or manifestation, and the umbrella name was “positive thinking”.
Which was not without controverse, understandably because of its implications that illness is your own fault.

A simplified idea which embodies everything that was wrong with the  New Age movement. 

But I did not let this stop me from practicing it, because I was aware that there was always a level to which our thoughts influenced our experience, that we could all agree on.
If we feel great, the day goes great.
If we feel awful, the day will go akin.

Even in the 90s, I always believed there was a vanilla level of reality bending where we didn’t have to bump heads.
And in 2024, when covering the topic of aging, and how you can prevent it by placing yourself on an earlier timeline, I think that truth still stands.

Even the biggest sceptic will understand that what you think influences your experience.
It’s just the degree to which you believe this to be true, where opinions can be different.

So this is all about if your ACTUAL PAST, holds a key to the person you would like to be today, or contains the life (/lifestyle) you would now like to have.

But we can move further into this.

Because without going deep into quantum and the nature of reality;
What would happen if we expand on our little mind-trick experiment, imagining our past self actually even making better choices?

So not just do we start living from the actual reality of our lived past, but we bring the wisdom we acquired over later years, to give them a competitive advantage?
To improve on the life they lived?

Just like living in the past, a younger self, will rejuvenate you because your mind stops supporting the idea of an aged body;
Changing the past, will change you too because your mind stops supporting a life choice you want to reverse, and/or it will start living into a path you wish you had taken.

If you believe these small changes, playing mind games are possible (living in the past, and then making a different choice there) then in my opinion, what you have now done is this;
You have opened a portal.

You are now on a different timeline.

You just gave yourself a new chance, at life.

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~Suzanne
Rock Star Writer

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your wholeness is not a negotiable | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 05 20

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your wholeness is not a negotiable

Just because someone else is invested in only one side of you;
Hired to support one aspect of your life, funded or appointed to be responsible for one area, and I do not care how big or profound or meaningful;

Any assumption they are holding the key to who you are, is vanity.

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As you may or may not have noticed, ever since October I have not been very active online. The reasons appeared to be scattered ones, incidental ones, unlucky ones.
Futile details, in the larger scope of things.

And that would have been correct, had they not thickened into bigger, unsolvable problems. Fundamental and principal differences. Early indicators of long and proven relationships, that I never expected to have to go without, but that will either bend or break, in the upcoming six months.

October, November 2023, there seemed little more at work than chance. Months later, it is now May 2024, and I see my life coming apart at the seams.
And know that it was time.

That this breaking, or the bending, and the snapping back into something completely anew, for a new era;
It is inevitable.

It is that, or to give away the piece that they are holding. The interest they are having. The part that was never for them to take, but ended up on their half, instead of on my own domain.
It will be claimed.
It is mine.

There is a story in the bible of two women who claim to be the mother of a child. And it is not until it is under threat that the child is cut in half, that the real mother screams: “Take him! Give him to her!”
Revealing the true one.

And we go around giving pieces of our life away, thinking they will be better off with professionals, with other mothers, and that these areas or even parts of our own bodies, need the care of other mothers.
But you and I, cannot afford the price.

The price of being disowned from our own resources.
Disempowered from our own bodies.

Claim back what is yours. Do not give away so easily. Guard, defend, regroup, restore.

And come back stronger.

~Suzanne
Rock Star Writer

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this is your curtain call | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 05 04

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this is your curtain call

Not to the show you think is feasible, in line with the past, or the one you have been meticulously working on.
Slowly progressing in your skills.

I mean the one coming out guns blazing.

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Someone who has seen the 4-part Bon Jovi documentary “Thank you, Goodnight” may recognize the line from guitarist Phil X, that when they come back after Jon Bon Jovi’s recovery of his voice, it will be:
“Guns a-blazing”
So that is where I got the idea, and let’s hope that Bon Jovi will come out in this cowboy style fashion.

But that is really where the comparison stops, because I am not talking about you setting yourself up for a final tour where you take your body of work to a whole new level and let it shine again.
Although it may end up being what you’re gonna do, I don’t know.

But that is not what this is about.

I’m talking about putting it ALL, together. Your whole crossover, mix and match, hot mashup of dreams, callings, things you set out to do, and then you never did.
Start embodying it all, and start it today, because we’ve passed the moment when all this could be achieved according to the ways of the world.
As far as they ever could, in the first place.

But now we need magic.
Improvisation.
You getting the f*** over yourself, and take responsibility for what you came here to do.

Get a paper, a notebook, write yourself an email, and jot down what the fully accomplished version of you has, does, but more importantly who that person IS.

And there may be things that you no longer feel are right, tomorrow.
And I know that writing and words are poor ways of expression, but the real things will be more individualized.
I will share three of them.

Three moments or things or people that shot me straight into where I needed to be.

The first one was when I bought a new black (faux) leather jacket, they called it “sky leather”, when I was 15 year old.
It really grew me, it defined me, and I liked the feeling of the cool inside of the coat, wearing a T-shirt underneath.
The jacket made me.

The second one was Madonna in 1998, coming out with her new record and a new physique; The muscular Ashtanga yoga version of herself.
She radiated power and self-agency, and became the reason I started doing yoga and became a yoga teacher.
Her example engrained in my psyche, what a yogi could be.

The third one was a business coach, Katrina Ruth, whom I found online in December 2016.
Taking her teachings was like a purge, a cleansing of all unhealthy playing small trauma I had picked up along the way.
Of all the times my message was silenced.

If you’re interested you can watch the playlist I made on YouTube, or purchase her trainings on her website.

Katrina Ruth embodied the pushback and turned me into someone who is not just able to stand up and speak, when asked;
But to roar and rage, when all else has failed.

Claim your place in this world, today.
The show YOU are here to give.

And yes, do it with words, with writing and other modest means;
Until you find your magic jacket.
Until your new body mirrors itself to you, in front of your very eyes.
And until the one who has already become the person, appears, showing you how to do it.

In the 3 areas of

1. income, revenue, possessions;
What is it you are here to HAVE?

2. art/work/meaning/purpose;
What is it you are here to DO?

3. FULL Rock Star, bells and whistles and fireworks, expression;
Who is it you are here to BE?

Your show has a stage, it has characters, it has costumes, it has a storyline, it has a set list, a soundtrack;
And it has a very limited time window in which it can be performed, and make its mark.

It’s showtime.

~Suzanne
Rock Star Writer

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raise the rock star flag | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 04 25

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raise the rock star flag

I know, I know!
And Hell Yes!
We’d ALL choose being the nice, sociable, comfi, Sunday school version of our real selves, when given the choice.

But trust me when I tell you;
There is no choice.

You either are, or you are not.
And you are.

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There is no easy way to break the news, so I’ll serve it raw and bloody.

The entire world, including all things in it, tangible and intangible, are tailored to people who are wired in an ENTIRELY AND BY ALL ROCK STAR STANDARDS COMPLETELY SOPHOCATING AND NOT IN A CHOKE-HOLD ME WHEN YOU TAKE ME BUT A SUCKING THE LIFE OUT OF EVERY ORIPHICE KIND OF WAY

So no matter how hard you:
Try to make this world your own.
Accommodate.
Understand.
Adapt.
Bend.

The sinking feeling that something is horrible wrong will never be going away and will only get worse over time.
The end of the story is you’ll blow something up.
And with your blatantly obvious ability and willingness to not make this other people’s problem, this will mean you’ll blow up yourself.

Either you’ll kill the essence of who you are, by destroying your creative work or an object, social media account, files, or whatever, which is symbolic for your Rock Star Self.
Anything from setting it on fire, to simply turning your back and no longer showing up.

Or you will destroy something in your life;
That one relationship that made you feel vibrantly alive, euphoric even.
Destroy your consciousness by drugs and addictions of any kind.
Your sanity, by willingly opening the doors, of your own mind or your real life, to the deepest, darkest souls and demons  out there, in order to be consumed by them.

You will sacrifice your life to ugliness, in a desperate but I suspect successful attempt to let your mental inside to be as shattered and messed up, and devoid of beauty, as now your life outside is.

Shallow, meaningless and artificial.

Or, alternatively, you embrace your Rock Star powers for what they truly are, and for the very purpose they were given to you.

To rule the world.

~Suzanne
Rock Star Writer

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