We really have only one job.
As artists, as entrepreneurs, but also in ANY job whether in the commercial market or the public sector.
And it is, you guessed it, it is to sell.
And although life would get much easier if we all learned this, or were aware of this, that this is the key thing required to get through life smoothly whether you have a payroll job or not;
Let’s just limit it to a professional context.
So that’s all payroll jobs, but also the independents of artist, writer, or otherwise hopefully madly passionate about what it is you do- person.
We are all basically paid to the degree at which we are successful at selling. Not “selling ourselves”, no, “selling”.
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But some of us are more comfortable selling products, and we show up daily on the socials to sell those.
Others also prefer something tangible, but have a business-to-business strategy where they strive for making one bigger deal a week.
As employees we need to work out an income strategy, how we are going to navigate our career.
And as independent service providers (so we don’t sell tangible products), we should answer these two questions;
“What do I want to sell?”
“Who do I want to sell it to?”
So if I’m a writer, the answer can be selling my time, selling copy, articles, manuscripts, printed books, my body of work, one new novel a year etc.
And to whom the answers can be selling to businesses, or to Instagram users, to book publishers, to Hollywood producers, to collectors and so on.
In all cases, whether we’re selling products, are employed, or selling services;
It’s not the quality of your work, that determines its financial success.
It’s whether we’re able to sell the work successfully.
We can only sell successfully to an audience that is a match with how we want to sell. There are transactions and markets where buyers feel insecure and aggressive selling is a big No.
These buyers are, often entirely justified, very uncomfortable being sold to because they recognize their vulnerability here.
But this is a perfect market for you, if you have a lot of patience, love giving explanation and even coaching your clients through their buying experience. Your ethical way of serving this particular audience, could make you a very successful seller there.
But that’s not for everybody!
Many of us like a little bit more speed!
And love creating easy grab-click-pay offers, that buzz with excitement.
Here too, if you like the high-energy of having a lot of clients and an avalanche of sales?
This is your thing!
But get this;
Although Let’s Get You Sellin’ is inspired by my realization that so many qualified professionals fail to make any money because their industry just doesn’t have a healthy financial practice;
The problem underpinning it all?
Is a cultural one.
It’s not specific to running a business, but just as problematic with salary conversations. And it’s also not limited to money, and could just as easily be applied to dating.
The cultural problem is a coded in limit on how much space we are allowed to take up.
How much sex and more specifically how many partners we’re allowed to have?
How much money we’re allowed to make?
How much power they’re comfortable with?
It’s all the same.
And it’s how you’re cock blocked from your own good fortune.
In all those areas, our culture has us moving within invisible lines of shame and internalized aggression. And it is that electric fence that we cross if we start selling. Whether selling is a salary conversation, selling our digital products on Instagram, or making our move or planting our flag, in any of the above mentioned areas;
You will feel the presence of the fence.
And the sting if you cross the line.
If you get a shock, that was culture aggressively indicating how far you are allowed to go.
THAT, is the reason I want you to start selling.
Not because it is the only way to make money, and not even as a way to liberate yourself.
BUT I WANT YOU TO KNOW WHERE YOU ARE.
Selling is like the smoke that makes invisible radar or laser beams, visible to the naked eye.
Do it, and you will see the tripwires, externally as well as internally.
Catacombe is my business created for ROCK STARS.
So of course my vision for you is that you do liberate yourself.
These invisible constraints are toxic as hell, yet cloaked as love and worry about your well being.
By the people that are closest to you.
It is crucial that you understand what has happened to you. And why this shaming of selling is so particularly debilitating.
And there is more.
Because you are not just, selling.
You are also an artist, a creative, meaning your work itself has a destabilizing edge to it.
Even if you make the most lovely nature pencil drawings, simply the amount of time you’d spend on them, the dedication to your craft and the prolific sharing of your work, would be more than enough to draw out snarky and discouraging remarks.
I wish for you to open your eyes and to see what the forces are you are actually dealing with here.
Because even if you decide staying within the lines of other people’s comfort zones is at least for now your best strategy;
You need to know that, is what you’re doing.
Otherwise the first shock of electric fence will have you floored.
I believe we should aspire to step on that for many of us new path, of standing up for ourselves and for our work;
Promoting ourselves and making ourselves or our work visible;
And the endgame of starting to sell, like you own it!
It is one of the most actionable and liberating things we as human beings can do for ourselves.
Maybe this post is more than enough for you to understand the forces at play here, and to start leaning into them.
Let them feed you, call them out, draw a line in the sand as to how far from now on your life will be influenced by so called well-meaning advice about what you can or cannot create;
How or where you show up;
And who you sell to and how you sell.
Then go forth and start selling in any way you see fit.
Create and boldly stand by it.
Yes, you are in integrity selling.
And No, you do not need mine or anybody’s approval.
If you’d like to have a conversation with me, then you can book
Let’s Get You Sellin’
It will be available until 7 July 2027.
The costs are € 297.
And what you get is a two hour call with me.
And the invitation to send me all your thoughts on the subject, in writing, in the week before our call.
Until mid-March 2025, I have options available until 8 PM Central European Time.
After this I expect to be scaling down, so if you are on a different continent (like East Coast USA) this might be the better time to book.
You’re welcome to take the call on repeat, for example once a year. And after the workshop you are also eligible for a second workshop at a similar price point, where we take a look at what you would like to sell.
What would make your heart sing, if you’d wake up everyday to that being your work.
But first we get you sellin’.
Because that is how we show the world where we are, and who we are.
Unconsciously, or perhaps after this post consciously, allowing other people to stand up into their power too.
And become the Rock Star they were born to be.
~Suzanne Beenackers
Catacombe
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If I would have to pinpoint when I became a “marketing addict”, I would say 2015 at the absolute latest.
don’t change the show, change your audience
the only thing it needs is selling
If you want to step into easy, no-tech required, selling of whatever it is you sell as an independent or small business?
The past couple of weeks, I have been coasting.