(what if?) that is the actual work | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2025 01 28

(what if?) that is the actual work

Promoting, cleaning shit up, creating your look and getting ready every day.

The difficult conversations.
The fixing of unforeseen problems.
The setting of boundaries when you least expect it.
The nurturing of social structures surrounding whatever it is you do.

= your actual job

Years ago there was a meme trend for yoga teachers with “What people think I do” versus “What I actually do”.
I forgot what the specifics were, so I looked it up. What people think I do was actually specific to a person or a group.
So you’d have like “What my parents think I do” or “What my students think I do” or “What the New York Times thinks I do”.
The latter with a picture of inflexible people trying out poses way over their head, because we were in the aftermath of a critical article which, if I am not mistaken, was called “Yoga Wrecks Your Body”.

Yet although the interpretation of what it was the yoga teacher did varied, where the yoga teacher themselves was usually content with meditation sessions where they checked their watch all the time, doing long relaxation pose or a supported child’s pose (and nothing flashy);
At least everyone was on the same page.

Everybody thought a yoga teacher did yoga.

This is of course a very logical thought, because it is our most distinguishing feature.
However!
This does not mean that it (doing or teaching yoga) is what determines our professional success, or even what we are doing most of the worktime.

Mapping out our teaching schedule.
Promotion (creating content and being online).
Doing our own yoga.
Keeping our website updated.
Email correspondence.
Preparing classes.
Travel time.
Having social interactions before or after class.
Cleaning the studio time. *

My estimate is 25% actual teaching hours, 75% tasks as illustrated above.
But yoga teachers are not alone here;
This goes for so many types of work.

If you’re thinking about a career switch, or exploring new directions?
Look at that 75% of the not-doing-your-work, before making a decision!

The 25% of whether or not the real work is ideal, a true match, or if it is work which remotely appeals to you?
Irrelevant.
At least when it comes to making a non-passion based job decision.
You’ll manage, you’ll find a way.
Yet, if you are not the right person to rock that 75%?
Oh, that’s gonna be one hell of a painful work path.

So, nuff said about that scenario.
Because similarly to yoga teachers, we are usually not really thinking about a non-passion-based job right?!
We may have one, and it’s good to know this whole thing about the 75%, but where we wonder if we can do it…… wonder if we can “make” it?
That is our passion, our creativity, our calling, our purpose.
Like the yoga teacher, we already know what it is we want to do.

Work which has come through deeply felt passions, or through an unstoppable need to help out or to contribute.
It – THE Work, OUR Work, the area of interest or the places or people we just love to hang out with, the things we like to DO! – it all comes through us and out of us, and the only choice we have is how to navigate this force.

It’s those areas where we need to be strategic.
And it‘s here, the “75% rule” can help make a choice, or should at least be considered!

So let’s say, hobby scenario, right?
You have a passion, or feel a call to do something and contribute.
Choose a way to limit extra tasks! Instead of settling for the meager 25% spending the time on what you really like doing, try upping it to 50%, or a hundred!

For example, a lot of people do voluntary work because they like the social interaction. But if you do it in an area where you normally don’t reside, you’re not going to build your network in your own neighborhood, and you’re also going to invest hours in travel time.

So “even” when something is a hobby or unpaid, beware that you don’t pick up work that is not the aspect you like about the job.
That’s not your passion-based part.

But one way or another, hobby or leisure time activities usually have a way of sorting themselves out.
Even without knowing this.

However, the most difficult areas are when we work because we are passionate about a certain cause, or because we have a different sort of calling or interest in it, and yet?
Oh, we find ourselves resisting all kinds of little, annoying, administrative hurdles and returning tasks, that we feel we need to “get by” in order to get to the “real work”.

It’s in those moments, that this blogpost is your wakeup call.
Those smaller tasks?
That is the work.
And in many cases, if you’re a professional it’s how you deal with those aspects that make you stand out. They’re usually way, and I mean WAY, more important, than the direct quality of your “real” work.

In 1983 a then unknown Bon Jovi had their first big show. They were the support act for ZZ Top. A stroke of luck! Because their debut album had not even been released, and the night before the two shows they had actually played for 30 people in a club in New Jersey.
Jon had been so nervous for this small gig, he’d lost his voice and it took all he had to go up on stage.

Yet the next day in Madison Square Garden he played it like he owned the place. “I lived there, it’s no problem.”

Jon even had to improvise, because guitarist Richie Sambora’s amplifier had blown up at the first chord of this important show.
The guitarist still remembers: “It was like slow-motion: ‘Ohhh, no!'”
The crowd, whom had been polite at first, was starting to get rowdy, shouting “ZZ Top! ZZ Top!”.
Jon took off his guitar and threw it to Richie.
“It’s all on you, play the guitar!”

They went through a 30 minute set in 17 minutes, but they did it!
(source: The funny story of when Bon Jovi was ZZ Top’s opening act

Even then you could see Jon Bon Jovi was more comfortable dealing with that “75%” often overlooked work necessary to perform in front of tens of thousands of people;
Than the skills required to entertain an unexpectedly intimate audience.

Which is in line with the fact that from the get go, he went for becoming a big rock n’ roll band, and did not even consider settling for the security of an income cover bands in New Jersey were close to being guaranteed at the time.
All or nothing.
“There was no Plan B,” he remembers.

So whether you are faced with technical problems on your first big break;
Or have stage fright when there are only a few people showing up.
Make sure you’re all geared up for the 75% of the work that people, parents and the New York Times, don’t realize you do.

‘Cause that?
Is your actual work.

 

~Suzanne Beenackers
Catacombe
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* I teach yoga in Nijmegen, https://declubyoga.com/

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liberate now | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2025 01 06

liberate now

Do not underestimate the level of bondage the world around you is in.
Everything it brings forth toxically tainted.

If you do nothing else this year;
Set the intention to be bigger and louder in 12 months.

And more ferocious.

I’ve listened to way too many reviews and analysis of the amazing movie Babygirl, and although I’ve heard many takes on it, from the most misogynist to the most positive as well, I have not heard anyone else bringing a very disturbing fact of this movie to the light.

Maybe because it’s a spoiler?
Or a bit of a spoiler? 

I don’t know, could be!
So spoiler alert then..

Are you still here?

Because here it comes.

Although the ending of Babygirl is open to multiple interpretations – something I will definitely be getting back to in 2025 (on my other blog, world between worlds, link to category babygirl) but I first want to give everyone a chance to go watch it-
so although there is definitely, and fortunately, a lot of interesting wiggle room with regard to Babygirl’s ending;
When interpreted at its most blunt face value?
It is an UNfinished hero’s journey!
What heresy!

Definition of hero’s journey;

“In narratology and comparative mythology, the hero’s quest or hero’s journey, also known as the monomyth,
is the common template of stories that involve a hero who goes on an adventure, is victorious in a decisive crisis, and comes home changed or transformed.”

Wikipedia

An unfinished hero’s journey would for example be, if after having mustered a fellowship of nine, having been stabbed half to death by a Nazgul on Weathertop, crossing the Dead Marshes with your best friend, who you first lost due to your own delusions, after which you were captured by a giant spider who sedated you and hung you up to be consumed later, and then your friend saved you;
*big breath*
And a small creature with two personalities followed you around and then push came to shove and you decided to not throw the ring into the fires of Mount Doom.
As would have been required to save the world.

But instead you hid the ring really well.
Somewhere no one would find it.
Because it saved you the final kilometers up the mountain, and those were really steep and you were kind of tired from all your adventures and besides the mountain was really hot and the little creature looked like it would bite your finger off and you dreaded spending the rest of your life with only nine fingers even though that would have been super symbolic of your fellowship so you just decided to call it a day. Or a journey.

That, is an unfinished hero’s journey.

And when taken in its most simplistic way, the ending of Babygirl is just that.
It has you yelling:
“You gotta be f-ing kidding me!” at the screen.

Until, of course, I realized this was really the highest possible outcome with regard to sexual liberation of women, currently achievable to Hollywood standards.

That Hero’s Journeys can be, and should be, and will be, completed when it’s about a bunch of guys putting their lives on the line to save the world.
However, when it’s about a woman trying to save her sexual identity, we’re gonna just walk a third into the first movie and after the Prancing Pony, we’re just done.

I mean, the wizard wasn’t there as he had promised he would be;
And we’ve seen the cloaked figures on horses that are definitely up to no good and they’ll try to assassinate us tonight, stabbing the decoy figures we will lay in the beds to fool them.

We’re done!
Let this Strider fella just take us hobbits home because we’ve seen enough adventures for three generations!

That, is how Babygirl ended.

Because when it comes to sexual liberation we have got such a long way to go, society and Hollywood being so restricted, we simply cannot have female heros walk their path to the bitter, or the satisfying, or the necessary, but in any way shape or form, the FULL ending.

Again, not using the wiggle room interpretation wise.
This is just going for the most obvious interpretation of it.

And who knows, maybe it was never intended to be a hero’s journey, but simply an art house drama movie. Who is to say.

But what struck me was that when thinking about the movie I had been so ignorant of the limitations a movie like this was faced with.
That I had actually assumed this movie had had full creative freedom.
Of course not.

Babygirl was made tiptoeing Hollywood’s Dead Marshes of misogynie.
The hero’s journey? That was not the protagonist having her sexual liberation!
No, it was writer and director Halina Reijn getting this movie made in the first place.

With Babygirl, Reijn got the ring into Mordor for us.
But it’s up to us to make sure it gets thrown into the pit.

So when I say Liberate Now, I mean;

Do not underestimate your opponent.
Do not think for a minute you’ll be allowed to break the shackles with whatever or whomever, and just walk your own path.

Know where you’re going.
Stay the course.
And bring a compass to readjust along the way.

And do not lose sight of the mountain of work ahead of you, but at the same time;
Be incredibly grateful for all the digging, smoothing, and the sign posts put up by all who went before.

And unless you’re the protagonist in an erotic 2024 drama movie that was brought to light against the odds;
Walk the path all the way to the end.

And throw that ring and all the other shackles that bind you, into the damn pit. 

..

..

Goodgirl /Hero
(pick one)

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Rock Star Take On SEXUALITY | The New Rock Star Channel (new video)

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Rock Star Take On SEXUALITY
| The New Rock Star Channel 

The New Rock Star Channel is here!

This week, the fourth video.
A Rock Star Take On SEXUALITY

Or watch the foundational video first, from 24th Oct 2024:
https://youtu.be/AQCIWDhaK4E
2 Rock Star Things That Took Me 25 Years To Find Out

Rock Star Take On SEXUALITY was recorded on 5 January 2025

In this video;

– welcome to a new episode of A Rock Star Take On 00:00
We are in SUCH luck! But before I get into that we have to go back to the topic I discussed last time.

– RECAP TIME! 00:20
Core Culture versus Outer Rim.
The last video was about this little known topic, but it could be your big Aha, as to where your Rock Star-ness comes from.
And thrives.

Want to watch that video, at any point?
Here’s the link:
https://youtu.be/T_IodALXEhs
(Rock Star Take on CORE CULTURE)

– And now: a juicy topic! 02:45
To counter the heavy topic of that last video, it was decided this one should be about sexuality.

– The movie Babygirl 03:20
This afternoon I realized Babygirl provides the perfect illustration to A Rock Star Take On Sexuality!
(And my official prediction Babygirl will be the most visited film of The Netherlands for 2025)

By now I have 10 hours of YouTube videos, 15 reviews and 1 screening of it under my belt.
And I already wrote two articles about Babygirl:
Review:
https://worldbetweenworldsnijmegen.com/2025/01/04/babygirl-2024-gets-hollywood-on-its-knees/
Pre-work:
https://worldbetweenworldsnijmegen.com/2025/01/02/but-will-it-satisfy-the-spoiled-ones-babygirl-2024-movie-pre-screening-musings/

-Sunday Holiday Lingering…. 06:54
After spending days in my head with this movie I knew I had to let this topic go before Monday, in order to pick up my regular work including videos for this channel.
Until I realized this movie was exactly the right topic to illustrate our video with!!

I will illustrate this topic with the male protagonist of the movie Babygirl;
Samuel, a 20-something intern in a big tech company.

– The Basic(s) 09:12
It’s all about understanding sexual power, and knowing how to wield it.
The only movie I know that has not one but TWO, protagonists in their Rock Star Sexuality, is Basic Instinct (1992).
Video includes a provocative invitation on how to watch it 😉

– Samuel 12:11
The male protagonist in Babygirl, possesses a dominant Rock Star Sexuality.
Why that is, how it expresses, and an observation that the strength of his power, is missed by almost anyone who watches it.
But if you watch closely, we can learn Samuel.
A lot.

-Scene by scene 14:37
The dog calming scene. The cookie scene. And even the scene where Samuel helps the husband of his lover.
Watch it through the lens of Rock Star Sexuality, and you will be mesmerized!
(and we are all educated🤓)

Next stop, Rock Star Take On
POWER!

And I have no idea how to go about it, but I’m counting on the Universe to bring me the perfect take on it.
As it did this time, with Babygirl.

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Rock Star Take On CORE CULTURE | The New Rock Star Channel (new video)

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Rock Star Take On CORE CULTURE
| The New Rock Star Channel 

The New Rock Star Channel is here!

This week, the third video. A Rock Star Take On CORE CULTURE

Or watch the foundational video first, from 24th Oct 2024:
https://youtu.be/AQCIWDhaK4E
2 Rock Star Things That Took Me 25 Years To Find Out

Rock Star Take On CORE CULTURE was recorded on 29 Dec 2024

In this video;

– welcome to a new episode of A Rock Star Take On 00:00
On a topic that is so new and niche, I built the larger part of this theory myself! 😅

– The Pioneers 00:58
Very little is known about this term.
But I had the luck of being introduced to it by therapist Melissa West: https://www.melissagaylewest.com/
And she credits learning the basics of this concept from a book by
Daniel Deardorff, “The Other Within”.

– Core Culture and Outer Rim 01:40
Prepare to have your whole world view turned upside down!
Explained with Star Wars!

– definition of Outer Rim 03:28
“People in the Outer Rim have positioned themselves so far away from Core Culture that they don’t have to fight the powers that be, in order to be free.”

– we all start in Core Culture 04:15
99.9% of us are born in Core Culture. Very few of us had parents who lived in the freedom of the Outer Rim.

– your only two options 04:40
Stay or Go.

You stay in Core Culture, either in the dominant part of Core Culture.
– the “First Order” – variant, of wherever it is you live-
Or in the part of society that had everything taken away from them.
This is the resistance or rebellion part, of the society where you live.
Staying in Core Culture is what will automatically happen if you don’t do anything.

Or, alternatively, you find out about the Outer Rim.
And one way or the other, and you move.

– The Rock Star Take 07:03
A Rock Star is an Outer Rim dweller, who shines so brightly, they can be seen from within Core Culture.

Because of the Rock Star, we in Core Culture:
– understand there is another place. They show us the existence, of the Outer Rim.
– understand where we are, and can navigate. Just like the stars were used to navigate at sea.

– the limited views in Core Culture 09:55
“Who’s on top?!”

– This is all rudimentary 10:47
The concepts of Core Culture and Outer Rim, and the perspective of theorizing about the freedom we have to position ourselves, are new.
This video does not pretend to be anything more than a first draft.

And was released with the hope that it increases chances someone more skilled will take it on, to push it further!
🤗

– Why the concept of Core Culture is important 11:23
Because its biggest problem is that we don’t know that we’re in there.
And we pay to be here, by having to submit to written and unwritten rules.

We are protected by Core Culture, but there is a price tag!
Becoming aware of what the price tag is FOR YOU is crucial.

It helps you to start actively looking if there are ways to position yourself better within Core Culture itself.

– moving to the Outer Rim 16:46
For some of us, life in Core Culture is not the right choice.
Whether we have dreams that require more space than Core Culture will ever allow, or because we are marginalized within Core Culture.
These people are the ones who will take their chances moving to the Outer Rim.
The price in suppressing who they are is so high, they will choose to move.

But the rules that keep you safe in the Outer Rim, are entirely different than the ones that keep you safe in Core Culture.

In the Outer Rim, just like a Rock Star, you only have yourself to fall back on.
And in return, you are now;
Free.

Next stop, Rock Star Take On
SEXUALITY!

Because after all this heavy listing, we deserve something light.

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Let’s Get You Sellin’ | new offer 2024 – 2027

We really have only one job.
As artists, as entrepreneurs, but also in ANY job whether in the commercial market or the public sector.

And it is, you guessed it, it is to sell.

And although life would get much easier if we all learned this, or were aware of this, that this is the key thing required to get through life smoothly whether you have a payroll job or not;
Let’s just limit it to a professional context.

So that’s all payroll jobs, but also the independents of artist, writer, or  otherwise hopefully madly passionate about what it is you do- person.

We are all basically paid to the degree at which we are successful at selling. Not “selling ourselves”, no, “selling”.
Sec.
But some of us are more comfortable selling products, and we show up daily on the socials to sell those.
Others also prefer something tangible, but have a business-to-business strategy where they strive for making one bigger deal a week.

As employees we need to work out an income strategy, how we are going to navigate our career.
And as independent service providers (so we don’t sell tangible products), we should answer these two questions;
“What do I want to sell?”
“Who do I want to sell it to?”

So if I’m a writer, the answer can be selling my time, selling copy, articles, manuscripts, printed books, my body of work, one new novel a year etc.
And to whom the answers can be selling to businesses, or to Instagram users, to book publishers, to Hollywood producers, to collectors and so on.

In all cases, whether we’re selling products, are employed, or selling services;
It’s not the quality of your work, that determines its financial success.
It’s whether we’re able to sell the work successfully.

We can only sell successfully to an audience that is a match with how we want to sell. There are transactions and markets where buyers feel insecure and aggressive selling is a big No.
These buyers are, often entirely justified, very uncomfortable being sold to because they recognize their vulnerability here.

But this is a perfect market for you, if you have a lot of patience, love giving explanation and even coaching your clients through their buying experience. Your ethical way of serving this particular audience, could make you a very successful seller there.

But that’s not for everybody!
Many of us like a little bit more speed!
And love creating easy grab-click-pay offers, that buzz with excitement.

Here too, if you like the high-energy of having a lot of clients and an avalanche of sales?
This is your thing!

But get this;
Although Let’s Get You Sellin’ is inspired by my realization that so many qualified professionals fail to make any money because their industry just doesn’t have a healthy financial practice;
The problem underpinning it all?
Is a cultural one.

It’s not specific to running a business, but just as problematic with salary conversations. And it’s also not limited to money, and could just as easily be applied to dating.

The cultural problem is a coded in limit on how much space we are allowed to take up.
How much sex and more specifically how many partners we’re allowed to have?
How much money we’re allowed to make?
How much power they’re comfortable with?
It’s all the same.

And it’s how you’re cock blocked from your own good fortune.

In all those areas, our culture has us moving within invisible lines of shame and internalized aggression. And it is that electric fence that we cross if we start selling. Whether selling is a salary conversation, selling our digital products on Instagram, or making our move or planting our flag, in any of the above mentioned areas;
You will feel the presence of the fence.
And the sting if you cross the line.

If you get a shock, that was culture aggressively indicating how far you are allowed to go.

THAT, is the reason I want you to start selling.

Not because it is the only way to make money, and not even as a way to liberate yourself.
BUT I WANT YOU TO KNOW WHERE YOU ARE.

Selling is like the smoke that makes invisible radar or laser beams, visible to the naked eye.
Do it, and you will see the tripwires, externally as well as internally.

Catacombe is my business created for ROCK STARS.
So of course my vision for you is that you do liberate yourself.

These invisible constraints are toxic as hell, yet cloaked as love and worry about your well being.
By the people that are closest to you.
It is crucial that you understand what has happened to you. And why this shaming of selling is so particularly debilitating.

And there is more.
Because you are not just, selling.
You are also an artist, a creative, meaning your work itself has a destabilizing edge to it.

Even if you make the most lovely nature pencil drawings, simply the amount of time you’d spend on them, the dedication to your craft and the prolific sharing of your work, would be more than enough to draw out snarky and discouraging remarks.

I wish for you to open your eyes and to see what the forces are you are actually dealing with here.
Because even if you decide staying within the lines of other people’s comfort zones is at least for now your best strategy;
You need to know that, is what you’re doing.

Otherwise the first shock of electric fence will have you floored.

I believe we should aspire to step on that for many of us new path, of standing up for ourselves and for our work;
Promoting ourselves and making ourselves or our work visible;
And the endgame of starting to sell, like you own it!

It is one of the most actionable and liberating things we as human beings can do for ourselves.

Maybe this post is more than enough for you to understand the forces at play here, and to start leaning into them.
Let them feed you, call them out, draw a line in the sand as to how far from now on your life will be influenced by so called well-meaning advice about what you can or cannot create;
How or where you show up;
And who you sell to and how you sell.

Then go forth and start selling in any way you see fit.
Create and boldly stand by it.
Yes, you are in integrity selling.
And No, you do not need mine or anybody’s approval.

If you’d like to have a conversation with me, then you can book

Let’s Get You Sellin’

It will be available until 7 July 2027.

The costs are € 297.
And what you get is a two hour call with me.
And the invitation to send me all your thoughts on the subject, in writing, in the week before our call.

Until mid-March 2025, I have options available until 8 PM Central European Time.
After this I expect to be scaling down, so if you are on a different continent (like East Coast USA) this might be the better time to book.

You’re welcome to take the call on repeat, for example once a year. And after the workshop you are also eligible for a second workshop at a similar price point, where we take a look at what you would like to sell.
What would make your heart sing, if you’d wake up everyday to that being your work.

But first we get you sellin’.

Because that is how we show the world where we are, and who we are.

Unconsciously, or perhaps after this post consciously, allowing other people to stand up into their power too.

And become the Rock Star they were born to be.

~Suzanne Beenackers
Catacombe
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you’re a performer not a Swiss train conductor | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 12 05

you’re a performer not a Swiss train conductor

So unless it’s part of your art, it’s not your job.

And if it is?
There’s only one option.

Make it art.

The truth is, I don’t have the final version of how artists (in general) are supposed to leverage it all, come 2025.
Where art starts and where it stops and the havoc of commercialism begins.

I do not have a final lecture on how to handle making a living when your work, together with all the other things that give our lives meaning, was never included into capitalism.
And has been passed around like a hot potato from one marginalized group to the next, or from one privileged figure in society to the next, for thousands of years.
Always without a natural home.

So no finalized list, no artist’s manifesto.
All I can say is that, like with many things, the more you know the more you’re aware of how little you know.

Suffice to say, I m sharing the little that I know, while still being aware I will probably need to eat my words again.
And that’s okay.

So artist, performer;
What is it that you do, and why are you not a Swiss train conductor?

The title is a quote from the movie Bohemian Rhapsody. It is what Freddie Mercury says to his bandmates when he’s being called out for arriving late at the studio.

“I’m a performer Darling, not a Swiss train conductor.”
movie Bohemian Rhapsody, “Freddie Mercury”

There is a children’s book by Leo Leonni, about another Freddie, called Frederick.
(video)
It is about a mouse who does not seem to work. When the other mice are collecting food for the winter, Frederick collects colors and sunbeams.

And deep into winter, when the food is all but gone and their tiny bodies are cold from the harsh temperatures, they call upon Frederick.
“How about your supplies?” they ask.
And Frederick starts speaking.

About the seasons and about the sun shining warmly on their furs.

Little by little the mouse begin to feel better, their cheeks rosy and their minds brimming with memories and the promise of better times.

As a performer, your art is everything that enables you to be there, even when the other systems have come to a halt.
And even if that means that in the pre-art phase little is visible, and the people around us may not be as understanding as the mice from Frederick’s community.
Or we less eloquent than Frederick, or Freddie Mercury, in explaining what it is we do.

The moment we start measuring our success (or worse: value) by whether we are as accurate as a Swiss trainconductor, or as productive as the other mice whose lives in the heart of winter will be dependent on whether or not we have nourished our artistic capacities;
That, is the moment we kill our art.

So can we then not be more productive?
Can we not be accurate and reliable?

You can if you make it part of your art.
I don’t know, maybe Frederick could have color coded the stock.
Or Queen could have set up their studio days in a more colorful fashion, around certain themes, fancy dress codes and with guest musicians to collaborate with.  

In the same way you can incorporate activities or areas of life that are difficult to skip or neglect without being an asshole, into your creative work.

Just never forget what you are here for, and what will be needed from you most, is your warming light;
Your bright colors;
Your words;
And your poetry.

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~Suzanne Beenackers
Catacombe
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Originally scheduled to be renewed on the 4th of December, these offers are still up, until this Freddie (Suzanne) feels inspires to create her new offer.

Because she’s not a Swiss train conductor, and it means you can still sign up for:

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& The in-person as well as the reduced- (<5PM) rate of THE ROCK STAR
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will also disappear.

On 4 December 2024 whenever a new cycle starts.
With a fresh but minimalist program offering, leading all the way up to 2034.


signature offer:  The Rock Star 2024

monthly mentoring:
THE COUNCIL

until 4 Dec 2024:
Specify. Sell. Repeat..


THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

————-.

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How big will you think? | final days for these offers

“build it to last

Let the work that flows out of you, whatever it is that you do, serving others

Through your art, your ideas, your presence.

Let it come out whole, so that hundreds of years from now its soul is still there.”

quote from:
build it to last | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 08 30

——

Current day. 2nd December, 2024.

I must have felt something important was coming.
And although I did not yet know what it was, and part of me still feels uncertain about many many things;
It is here.

And as I understand it now, it will mean that the program change which was already planned to be on December 4 this year, will be a far deeper cut than I anticipated.
Or knew even a few days ago.
One new offer that I already created will never even be brought to light.
And instead of committing to offering these renewed services for 2.5 years – which already felt like a stretch but also daring! –
I will be leaping.

The new services will be available until 2034.
Unchanged, with the exception of an occasional (and announced) price raise.

So this means that as of Wednesday, Catacombe (become the Rock Star you were born to be) will be switching to services that will be available for what I plan on being the remainder of how long I will be doing this work.

After that I plan on wrapping up the Catacombe Rock Star legacy and from 2035 up, to be a full-time writer instead.

I hope you’ll join me on this journey, and maybe like me, you too have the tremendous luxury of time of life….
And you too, will give it meaning, and direction.

But remember the words of Jon Bon Jovi:
“Map out your future.
But do it in pencil.”.

.
~Suzanne Beenackers
Catacombe
become the Rock Star you were born to be

 

Last chance sign up for these offers:

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On 4 December 2024 a new cycle starts.
With a fresh but minimalist program offering, leading all the way up to 2027.
2034.


signature offer:  The Rock Star 2024

monthly mentoring:
THE COUNCIL

until 4 Dec 2024:
Specify. Sell. Repeat..


THE ROCK STAR

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THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

————-.

Catacombe is email-list free!!

Yes – you can subscribe to receive new blogposts;
But no additional or promotional emails are sent – just the blog, sec.

Promotions are very rare, but if available, they’re posted on Instagram and Rock Star Writer Facebook.
If you don’t use social media, feel free to say so with your application.
If there is a special offer I will email it to you.

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Rock Star Take On CRAFT | The New Rock Star Channel (new video)

new video on YouTube:
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Rock Star Take On CRAFT
| The New Rock Star Channel 

The New Rock Star Channel is here!

This week, the second video. A Rock Star Take On FAME

Or watch the foundational video first, from 24th Oct 2024:
https://youtu.be/AQCIWDhaK4E
2 Rock Star Things That Took Me 25 Years To Find Out

Rock Star Take On CRAFT was recorded on 24 Nov 2024

In this video;

– welcome to the New Rock Star Channel 00:00
This is still new to me, but this formerly unnamed series does have its name by now!
“A Rock Star Take”.
This time, A Rock Star Take On CRAFT

– CRAFT explained with my Madonna-inspired start to yoga 01:37
And my journey into business coaching 03:34
But you can apply this principle to any work or skill that once appealed to you.

– The punchline! 04:33

– The unexpected reason CRAFT matters 04:52
Even to mighty Rock Stars who are by default, above it all.

– freedom of craft 07:50
A Rock Star can choose, and re-choose, any craft they want. They are not limited to one area.

– the risk of going Pro 09:32
For a Rock Star, studying and getting certified comes with an unexpected risk!
But a few self-questions can keep you on track.

– What happens if you fail 14:04
The dire consequence of going Pro without first knowing your own Rock Star quality.

– the secret to amazing CRAFT! 15:37
Where captivating, original, urgent art, actually comes from.

– picture the following 17:42
What would happen if you “just” focused on the CRAFT of your Rock Star-ness, instead?!

Next stop, Rock Star Take On
CORE CULTURE!

For which I have to do some research on who to credit here.
But I’ll figure it out, and have a new video for you soon.

.

~Suzanne Beenackers
Catacombe
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https://catacombenijmegen.com/current-offer/
will also disappear.

On 4 December 2024 a new cycle starts.
With a fresh but minimalist program offering, leading all the way up to 2027.

 


THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

————-.

Catacombe is email-list free!!

Yes – you can subscribe to receive new blogposts;
But no additional or promotional emails are sent – just the blog, sec.

Promotions are very rare, but if available, they’re posted on Instagram and Rock Star Writer Facebook.
If you don’t use social media, feel free to say so with your application.
If there is a special offer I will email it to you.

.

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the truth isn’t out there | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 11 23

the truth isn’t out there

Contrary to that famous tagline of the 90s television series The X-Files;
the truth is out there

Detective Mulder also had a UFO poster with “I want to believe” pinned to the wall of his  office.
To believe in the truth, I presume.

But every new discovery only ever lead  to one thing;
Another villain.

Just a bit higher up.

I have no idea how much I told you, about everything I did during the pandemic. The years before it, and the years since.
Until I finally hit the brick wall and concluded;
The truth is a dead end street.
All you will ever find is a lie, which is not the same as finding the truth.

The truth, in an evidence based scientific way, does not exist.
There are only those who lie consciously, and those who lie unconsciously.
And although both can be used negatively, they can also both be used positively.

Truth is created by consciousness.
Including the consciousness of the narrator.

So if you find a situation and then tell what you see, you are adding to its existence.
It was mother Theresa who said she would not march against war, but she’d rally for peace.
Because you cannot give something your attention and expect it to go away.

There is a healing technique called Hoʻoponopono, where the practitioner heals by taking responsibility for seeing sickness.
For taking part in it, and by revoking that power and seeing health and healing instead.

Those are examples of what I would define as positive, “conscious lying”.

The practitioner claims something that is not congruent with the truth, as we experience it at that moment. But they have intentionally reversed the truth in order to create the desired effect.
They consciously choose the lie of the affirmation of the positive, in order to create this positive.

Still sticking to positive uses of lying, there is also unconscious lying.
Which can be just as beneficial. 

Here “unconscious” means that the speaker is unaware that they are creating the truth with their words and their thoughts.
And because of that, their most powerful contribution to the world remains hidden, even to themselves.

We all know that person or family, whose house radiates love, laughter and joy;
Yet they claim to not do anything special and that it’s often “a real mess”.

Many of us had or have that one colleague without whom work would have been a dreadful place.
It’s like they alchemize the atmosphere, into one of positivity and constructive cooperation.

Perhaps we have, or had, that special person who infused our life with a deep sense of meaning.

Yet rarely will either one of them be conscious of what it is they do.
They wouldn’t be able to explain and are largely unaware of the profound effect they have on the lives of others.

They do not know their own truth of the light they bring.

So instead of believing in truth, reason, science, or facts;
It is a much better strategy to believe in love.
And to understand that the truth is not out there.
It is within
.

Truth can be found within yourself, but also in the hearts of others.
Where like a true treasure it is hidden.

Even from the ones who carry it.

.
~Suzanne Beenackers
Catacombe
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On 4 December 2024 a new cycle starts.
With a fresh but minimalist program offering, leading all the way up to 2027.


signature offer:  The Rock Star 2024

monthly mentoring:
THE COUNCIL

until 4 Dec 2024:
Specify. Sell. Repeat..


THE ROCK STAR

.
THE ROCK STAR, is Catacombe’s signature 3 hour session.

THE ROCK STAR is a one-time investment, and our conversation is confidential.

To book, email me at:
s_beenackers@hotmail.com

Terms and conditions at:
https://catacombenijmegen.com/terms-conditions/

Once we know we are a good fit, my price is accepted by you and you choose to make a booking;
We move.

It is possible the above story has already given you an outline of what you want to discuss.

If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

————-.

Catacombe is email-list free!!

Yes – you can subscribe to receive new blogposts;
But no additional or promotional emails are sent – just the blog, sec.

Promotions are very rare, but if available, they’re posted on Instagram and Rock Star Writer Facebook.
If you don’t use social media, feel free to say so with your application.
If there is a special offer I will email it to you.

.

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know evil | What Do Rock Stars Need To Hear Today 2024 11 09

know evil

We cannot escape it, for it is present even in our loved ones.
And, you guessed it;
In ourselves.

It can enter if we leave but one door open. One area, where we allow ourselves the luxury of being in the dark and- BOOM!

For Christ’s sake;
Know what you’re dealing with.

I’m not too big on organized religion, but I’ll give them one thing;
At least they know what they’re dealing with.
There is a concept of Evil, something which has been dangerously missing from most spiritual lineages which emphasize union, light and love.

And I get it; If for 2000 years the most sordid crimes and systemic oppression has taken place in the name of the Lord, you’re not exactly keen on taking Christian ideas on board on the nature of good and evil.
In particular not when they can be linked directly to keeping the rich rich, the poor poor, and to keeping everyone not a white male the furthest away from power as patriarchy allows.
Which seems to have unlimited give, in that area.

But just because evil preaches about evil, and uses fear of it for its own gain, that does not mean evil itself does not exist. Nor that evil was ever limited to the people who had so effectively weaponized it.
Quit the opposite.

We must see human history as proof, that evil exists.
The least we can do is learn from history, even if it is just in its most generally-agreed-upon interpretation.

Looking back, and with an endgame against evil sorely missing, it should come as no surprise evil was allowed to endure, in the words of Lord of the Rings.

Perhaps because someone always takes the ring of power before it can be cast into the fires of Mount Doom;
Or perhaps because unlike in folklore, evil cannot be destroyed.

Whatever the reason, now is the time to look around you, or look into history and to judge for yourself;
Do you think Evil was present, during * fill in any catastrophic violation of human rights * ?
If the answer is Yes, then this means this Evil is still present today.

And it is your job to recognize it, and take the surprise out of it! 
Whatever happens on a world stage or whatever happens to you personally, you have already won half the battle if you expected it, because you have done your share of the cognitive reasoning.

It’s like when the dark planet Pluto was discovered in the 20th century;
They had known for ages this planet was there because they had suspected it since 1846 and they had calculated it since 1903, when Pluto was called Planet X. 

An active search began, and in 1930 they found it, and called it Pluto.

I want you to be as unsurprised when encountering evil, as astronomers  were discovering Pluto.
You are like an astronomer whom looking at known data, either suspects or knows for a fact, that planet X exists.

You do not have to go looking for it, but study whatever important historic facts you think are relevant here, and trust your conclusions on the subject.
And if you conclude Evil exists, then you should ingrain that knowledge deeply.

And think about what your strategy is, preferably before Evil comes knocking at your door. But definitely before you dip even one toe into the battlefield.

You should not be treading that lightly, thinking it will not be so bad. 
Not unless you believe every oppressed group in history also had their negative thought patterns to blame for their demise.

In my opinion “just” love and acceptance, is not going to cut it.
Which does not mean that you cannot choose that!
Love and acceptance can still be all the armor you will bring, but like Gandhi,
it should be a conscious choice.
If you choose to turn the other cheek, because you have thought it through and these are the principles you live by.
But don’t let it be because you underestimate what you’re up against.

Okay.
So Evil in the modern age?
Do we have a concept of what to look for?
Where to look, where it resides/ its lair, and do we know what its weapons are?

I am by no means an expert, but I have a few pointers which might be useful to get you started and create your own perspective.

Evil is the absence of awareness and/ or consent is being bypassed
and/or the blocking of real connection

And another pointer is that evil comes with a resistance to bring this awareness, to bring light (a conscious decision or reflection) into its darkness.
Evil is darkness that comes with protection towards light.

You can recognize this protection by a quickening in the conversation, a skipping of steps, or (most commonly) a discussion or education about a certain topic starting past/after the point where the foundational decision has been made.

Think of it as the toothbrush trick for children, but now for adults.
“Do you want to use the blue toothbrush or the red?”
And us not noticing the decision to brush our teeth has been taken from us.

Whether this is evil depends on the response when being called out. This goes for systems as well as people.
If their response is irritation, pushback, and denial about their attack on our sovereignty;
Then their behavior is evil.

If they accept being called out, and acknowledge you caught them or are genuinely interested in where they missed the mark;
If they apologize and feel remorse, then no harm was intended.

But beware of the speed of this process!
If it’s too quick and they try to brush over the situation, then they are still evil because they are blocking real connection.

Which is the absolute hallmark of evil!

Anyone placing something in between you and them (f.e. a religious conviction, a judgement about you, a problem you need to solve for them, or a political color) is evil, because they are blocking you from knowing them and are forcing you to deal with their shield.
Maybe it is not that “they” are evil, but their behavior is, and you should be weary all the same.

As part of your defensive arsenal in general, I do recommend having a few of those distracting topics handy for your own protection.
Collect a few viewpoints which will repel people, preferably viewpoints that are authentically yours, but I would be liberal here.
And select on effectiveness over authenticity.

Know what to say, to create distance between you and someone violating your space.

Unless you go for the all love and peace option, but I don’t expect that will be too many of us.

Naturally, the areas people are unwilling to discuss also offer opportunities to weaponize their darkness against them.
Again, this is up for your conscious decision making if you want to go that way.

Remember that there is no awareness in evil.
It is not the act but the very absence of awareness that makes it evil, or that gives evil a doorway to come in. If you believe in dark entities then it is generally believed they hook on into the dark spots. That the more dark spots you have in your awareness, the more things you do not want to talk about, brush over, or are ashamed of, the easier it is for dark forces to latch on, which can be detrimental to you but also to those around you.

Evil entities who are not strong enough to reach people around you directly, can then hurt them through you.
This is when you hear words coming out of your mouth, wondering where the hell they came from!

Whether you believe in these unseen forces or not, the general gist of this first pointer (awareness/consent/blocking connection), and in all probability also of the second piece below, which I will write next, is;
Stay strong. Stay present. Stay aware.
Really show up in full connection with whomever you come in touch with.
And be prepared.

Okay second piece.
This, like the first part, is assembled from several singular points I had noted down. Hopefully being able to combine them into one fluent story.

.

Evil is when fear is brought to the table, when it is unclear who is responsible, when shame is involved

Fear.
Nothing good can come of it.
I know it is very popular to say things like fear being natural, and a protective device, but those opinions are not mine.
And if you can see me going down that road, please push this blogpost 9 November 2024, under my nose! Because I need to read my own words.

So why do I hold fear in such a low regard?
Because first of all you do not think clearly, when you are in fear. So by definition you are incapable of making a rational decision, because your mental capacity has been highjacked by this emotion.
And I will leave it to the experts in neuro psychology to come up with a scientific explanation, but I think I understand the gist of it, and that this claim is correct.
You’re not thinking clearly.
Stop.
Calm down.
And do not do anything until you have mastered your fear.

The second reason you should not do anything when you are in fear, is that your intention, your mindset, your manifestation abilities if you believe in those, are setup wrongly!
Because you’re holding this thing you’re fearful of, and that you’re trying to avoid or move away from, in your mind’s eye when you are making your move in this state. Which will always have detrimental effects.

You must move, decide towards, and act, on what you DO want.
Not panic out of fear.

But the third reason, and most relevant to the topic at hand, is that fear makes you manipulatable. 
All anyone, including evil, needs to do is to touch on your fear, and you’ll vote/buy/do anything to prevent your worst fears from coming true.

The person who is selling you something or informing you on something should never be the same person as the one telling you fearful things.
Because
a. they have a direct interest in you being fearful, because then you buy.
Ask yourself, if this person had not first touched on my fear, would I have bought?
And
b. because fear has cut back your brain power to make a well-informed decision.
So the person who informed you, should never be the one benefiting from your (hopefully temporary) weak position here.
If you want, come back when you’ve done your research and compared other opinions and options.

So someone who FIRST triggers your fear, or even creates an entirely new fear, only to then offer the solution, is evil.

Then the second thing I mentioned;
Fear is when no one is responsible.
Get your red flags out!

This can be a war type of situation where whole areas go without proper rule and the right of the strongest prevails.
But it’s usually a lot more subtle than that.
It is every promise, deal or rejection, that is not made in written form;
It is every situation without someone in charge.
It is everything that is implied but not said out loud.

Is it always evil?
Fortunately no.
If you ask:
“Who’s in charge?”
“What do you mean?”
or
“Will I receive that in writing?”
And someone cooperates, then it has stopped being evil. Whether from having been called out or because it was always all very openly discussed, does not really matter.

But making people take responsibility for what they say, want and need, should definitely become second nature to you.
Don’t give the devil free rides.

And then, finally, to close this blogpost with;
Things are evil when shame is involved.

Intimately connected to the concept of Fear, but definitely the better paralyzer of the two, we have the concept of Shame.
The reason it’s related is because Shame is fear of social exclusion.
The reason Shame is even more effective than Fear, in destabilizing and manipulating people and selling them absolutely on everything you want them to believe, buy or do, is because that fear of social exclusion, is our primal fear.

It’s even a bigger fear than our own physical death, because we know we will all die some day anyway, and the best thing we can hope for is to die surrounded by loved ones.
Exactly what social exclusion prevents.

Shame is fear of dying alone, weaponized.
If someone or something makes you feel ashamed about yourself that thing has got its fangs and claws into you so deeply, you will need Lion Courage to release yourself!
But do it!

I am handing you Lion Courage, Rock Star Courage RIGHT NOW!
YOU CAN DO IT!

Sit with it, let it wash over you, every situation where you feel, as they say that nowadays “cringe”.
Whether it is Shame or its little brother Cringe, take that Lion Courage and bring all of your awareness to it.
Because those are not just doorways where evil can come in, it’s more like the whole backwall of the castle missing.

And now, we are at the end of the blogpost.

It has become so much longer than I intended, and also far more serious.
And still I know I will go about the rest of my day thinking “Oh I forgot this one.” or “I should have said that”
Which brings me to the final characteristic of Evil.

It is the illusion of undoing.

Evil, is Live spelled backwards. It is the undoing of creation, it is destruction in all its aspects including undoing your own writing.
Or altering it.

If we want to become messengers of the light, we must allow the light to work through us. Our human ego must step back and we must let God, or Good, take the wheel.
Just like Evil uses our blindspots to enter, God, or Good, uses where our awareness is.

The best way to fight evil is to amp up on your awareness to its maximum potential, and to stay away from everything that lowers your consciousness. 
Let awareness become your coin, your wealth, your riches.

Your awareness is your light which is not just your protection from evil, but the way you can bring good into this world.

I know it’s not exactly a reputable source, but I think a meme I encountered last week sums it up!

You do not arrive in the New World.
The New World, arrives through you.

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If you think you would benefit from a broader approach, my suggestion will be to sort your story into:

1. the earthly plane
Your possessions, worldly matters, income streams, worries and responsibilities you fear you can’t meet.
A helpful term could be how do things look from the perspective of financial freedom, or worldly freedom.

2. your purpose
What is the work you love doing, what are the moments big or small, that you know you are aligned. Has God told you, what you’re here for?
This is about creative freedom, or even karmic freedom.
Are you free to do the work, that is yours?

3. your Rock Star expansion
What is the fullest expression you are here to bring?
And what are the areas you’re playing small, as if cut off from your powers?
We investigate if in those areas, the rules you play by are yours, or society’s.
“3” is related to sexual freedom.
Like anything, it is up to you if that is part of our conversation or not.

Because all three points are just a suggestion, they offer a good framework providing one hour for every topic, to go deeper looking for answers.
But the setlist is not fixed.

I have merely built the stage for us, and we have three hours.

It is up for you to take it.

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