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This week, the eighth video.
A Rock Star Take On BELONGING

This blogpost was updated on 3 August 2026

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Foundational video 24th Oct 2024:
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2 Rock Star Things That Took Me 25 Years To Find Out
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Rock Star Take On LEGACY was recorded on 20 March 2025

In this video;

1. welcome to another episode 00:00
Of a Rock Star Take On.
And this time it’s about Belonging.
Opening with the disclaimer that I am not the right person to talk about belonging in the normal sense of the word, because I have no idea how to belong in the traditional sense.

2. The Witches of Eastwick (or is it even?!) 00:36
Because retold from memory after 30 years!
So I fear I may have little correct.
But this (or another) movie from the 80s does illustrates perfectly what traditional belonging is all about.

3. Lessons on belonging (being halfway in life) 04:24
About the cost of belonging, and the trap of settling for “fitting in”.
Fitting in is a highly stressful situation.

Coming back to the Witches of Eastwick story;
They didn’t belong, but at least, they didn’t have the burden of having to fit in either!

4. BELONGING in Core Culture 07:15
The difference between “Core Culture” versus the lone wolves of the Outer Rim.
And how the training for Core Culture starts in childhood, and is cumulative. Everything builds on “the busiest lane”, or what most people have chosen previously.
Making the same choices as most people, proverbially picking the busiest lane, is essential to reap the benefits of being in core culture.

5. BELONGING for Rock Stars and other Outer Rim folk 13:38
The different types of belonging that do not entail being part of Core Culture.
Satisfactory, profound, meaningful, accessible.
You’ll never go back!
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I even manage to tie it to sexuality.

6. What shall we do next time? 21:17
How about creating art and how it changes us?

Next stop, Rock Star Take On?
ARTING!

 

~Suzanne Beenackers
Catacombe
become the Rock Star you were born to be

Rock Star Take on BELONGING
is the fourth video receiving an updated blogpost
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